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I'm so off balanced...

Mere7706Mere7706 member
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I dont know what's wrong with me. I've been such a *** to dh lately. I'm able to put on a face at work but it's all a front. It's a sudden and lasting thing.  I try to go into days and nights with a positive outlook.  I had one tonight, but it was seriously 5 mintues into my walking in the door and dh and I were yelling at each other.
I still had my coat on, hadn't washed my hands or anything... had to pee. ds runs to me and I pick him up and we 'talk' to each other for a second. Dh hands me the bottle and says 'he had a bath, I started diapers, do you want to change before I go to the bathroom?"  Apparently I gave an eye roll and huffed/puffed (I dont recall doing that). I do remember scrunching my nose in thought "do I really need to do this now or can I wait a few minutes to get ds settled in my lap"  Dh flipped out on me and said he was tired of me.  We haven't said more than 10 words to each other since he came out of the bathroom.  This sucks. Why am I like this and how do I change it??!

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  • Temp76535187505890Temp76535187505890
    I get like that too even though I dont mean to sometimes.  Usually it's just that things have built up and unfortunately DH is the outlet for my frustrations.  I dont have any good advice on how to deal with it other than trying to get some time away by yourself or maybe the two of you as a couple?
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  • Lady GaladrielLady Galadriel member
    If you figure it out let me know. I dont even want to sleep in the same bed as the man, ds is driving me crazy, and my mom is even on my *** list. Wanna run away together?
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  • julielovestomjulielovestom
    It that is not your normal reaction, I would look into having your hormones checked.  Google hormone saliva testing, and you'll find lots of info.  I recently had mine checked, and found out that I have low progesterone which causes all kinds of side effects.  They say that sometimes after you have a baby your hormones just don't get back to normal.  Just thought this might be something to look into.  Good luck!
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