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Is this rude?

Million$$BabyMillion$$Baby
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Friends of ours had a baby last week and I ordered a cookie bouquet to be delivered to their house on Monday. I never received delivery confirmation. Would it be rude to email my friend and ask if he got the cookies? I don't want to look like I'm fishing for a thank you or anything, but I'm genuinely worried that they never got them....
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Re: Is this rude?

  • WhiteysWifeyWhiteysWifey member

    If you didn't want to seem rude, you could always call the company to find out if it were delivered...but I don't see a problem with calling the friend to find out.

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  • TakYelgifTakYelgif
    I don't think it is rude at all, I have had folks contact me to make sure I received what they sent and it has never bothered me.
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  • howleyshellhowleyshell member

    I'd contact the company first.

    As a new mom a call like that would have made me feel like crap for not having acknowledged the gift yet.?

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  • hannah&benhannah&ben
    imagehowleyshell:

    I'd contact the company first.

    As a new mom a call like that would have made me feel like crap for not having acknowledged the gift yet. 

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  • scallyscally
    imagehowleyshell:

    I'd contact the company first.

    As a new mom a call like that would have made me feel like crap for not having acknowledged the gift yet. 

    Ditto!  And if the company can't tell you...I'd try and contact the husband to see.

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  • blondie75blondie75 member
    I agree - call the company first. 
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  • beebe929beebe929 member
    imagehowleyshell:

    I'd contact the company first.

    As a new mom a call like that would have made me feel like crap for not having acknowledged the gift yet. 

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  • Million$$BabyMillion$$Baby
    imagescally:
    imagehowleyshell:

    I'd contact the company first.

    As a new mom a call like that would have made me feel like crap for not having acknowledged the gift yet. 

    Ditto!  And if the company can't tell you...I'd try and contact the husband to see.

    Thanks! I was actually planning to email the husband, since he's techinically the one I'm friends with (not that I don't like her...well you know what I mean!). But I'll try the company first anyway!

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  • roaringrockroaringrock
    imagehannah&ben:
    imagehowleyshell:

    I'd contact the company first.

    As a new mom a call like that would have made me feel like crap for not having acknowledged the gift yet. 

    this.

    I would not ask the new mother. that will only make her feel bad. 

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  • choco_labchoco_lab
    Please just wait a couple of weeks to see if you get a thank you!  Someone send a cookie thing to my house when the baby arrived and I didn't get to write the thank you for 2 weeks.  Ironically, the DAY I put the thank you in the mail, I got a call from UPS asking if I received the cookies!  The company (Mrs. Fields) contacted UPS because the sender contacted them!  I was HORRIFIED.  Thank God I had the thank you in the mail.  And I will be honest and say that the first month the baby was here.. I hardly got any thank yous out at all.. it took me a month!
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