OK, I must be stupid. Help!
I want to have my DS in his rear facing car seat behind me in our minivan because I am super neurotic and have this fear that i am going to have to swerve the car one way or another in an accident and choose to injure him or me. If we are on the same side, then I know (in my crazy mind) that I can smash up the passenger side and keep us safe.
Also, it's easier if we're both getting in and out on the same side.
Now, I NEED to have a mirror to see him. is it possible to set up mirrors to see your DC behind you? My van has no built in mirrors. I have the rainforest mirror that i used in the previous car when i had him on the other side but it doesn't work for having him behind me.
We have another year of rear facing so i'd really like to find a solution without moving him forward facing.
Re: Mirror for rear-facing baby behind driver???
DS carseat is behind me in my car. i have a padded safefit mirror attached to the headrest in front of DS. i just raised the headrest all the way up and angled the mirror itself down towards the carseat and i can see him just fine:
https://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2402035
It works better on the diagonal of the driver--ie the passenger side
BabiesRUs/Target/WalMart etc sell these mirrors that slip over the car's headrest so you can see the child while rear-facing--about $15--well worth it