My fertility will officially end on May 7th

pinkwedding05 · April 2009

We scheduled my tubal yesterday at my 6w check up. I am absolutely certain it is what I want, it's just strange. It kind of hurts to read of so many moms expecting suprise babies knowing that that can never be us. It wouldn't be us even if I didn't have my tubes tied though. It just isn't worth the risk of another m/c when so many of our embies are abnormal. We may decide to go back to Czech after we adopt, but I'm not sure how many attempts we'll be willing to try.

Nothing like celebrating Mother's Day by being sterilized.

sdkrlm · April 2009

oh wow! well best of luck to you

MelissaSue81 · April 2009

I completely understand your decision to have the tubal.. but i can see why it is sad for you too. Good luck!

jwally · April 2009

(((big hugs)))

YukonC · April 2009

hugs. I'll be calling you soon!

AB&TB · April 2009

Hugs!

LawLove08 · April 2009

I'm sorry. ?My sister just had her tubes tied a couple weeks ago, and went through the same grieving process. ?Hang in there - what you're feeling is normal.