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i'm a bad friend

bonnin507bonnin507
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I just saw a friend of mine who's dad was recently diagnosed w/ colon cancer.  It was a rough couple of weeks for her family, but I think the worst is over.  They got most of it out & just have to treat him for a 2nd spot they found.  She mentioned TTC sooner than she & her husband originally planned & I found myself bummed that she might get pregnant with or even before me!  (i'm having some issues with not O'ing)  This was going to be the one time I was going to be able to do something when none of my friends were & have all the glory to myself.  Of course I'd be so happy for her, but I'm just so frustrated that my own body isn't cooperating so we can get pregnant. 

 Oh & I ran into a high school classmate over the weekend that is having twins, a boy & a girl.  Not fair!!!!

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  • tct1219tct1219 member
    you're not a bad friend, it's hard to not feel that way.
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  • DaynaBrown07DaynaBrown07
    Your are not a bad friend at all. I feel the same way, except all of my friends are getting pregnant without trying, and we have been trying for almost 7 months now! It is so frustrating!
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  • baby#1hopefulbaby#1hopeful
    I think it is normal to feel that way.  I have a friend who's little boy is 6 months old and they are thinking of trying again.  The first pregnancy she came off of birth control and got pregnant the very first month.  I sometimes am jealous and hate that she may have her second one before I even get my first.
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  • sagittmamasagittmama

    I think it's hard to not feel that way.  I didn't share this, but my supervisor's daughter is KU.  I found out about this 2 weeks ago and she's not married.  She just went to her dr and felt so bad.  They did b/w and ta-da, she's pregnant.  It was more of an oops. 

    Even my supervisor knows that we're TTC and she doesn't really understand PCOS and say it would happen for me, etc.  I'm like it's just not THAT easy even if I wish it were so. 

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  • bonnin507bonnin507

    I'm so glad I'm not the only one.  And it does make it lot harder when people don't get that you've got issues, so it's not as simple as just having more sex.  Oddly enough barely anyone has asked "so when are you two having a baby?" lately, which I'm grateful for because I'd feel like punching them I'm so frustrated. 

    I'm a little excited today though because I have some pinkish brown spotting, so hopefully that means AF will be here tomorrow.  I recently finished a round of provera to induce AF so I can try clomid this cycle to make me O.  I haven't O'd since Nov!!

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