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A few of you had questions re: Devyn..

Sorry to take so long, but for those of you that had questions last night about Devyn..

My cousin Erin ( NOT devyns mom) added the paypal for donations from OUR family..they have 5 boys total, and one has autism. Now Devyn is on life support and the family is torn. They are doing their best, but obviously my cousin Nicole and her husband are not working. They have bills to pay and our family asked us to put up an account for them to donate to. With 169 people in the family its difficult for them all to send cards, not to mention the PICU where Devyn is does not allow cards, balloons, flowers, etc. Some of our family is out of state as well. Also, some friends of the family were wanting to donate and asked if they had an account. So my cousin Erin put one together for the friends and family. All we ask is for is prayer.. prayers are more powerful than anything! It was a debate on whether we should put the paypal up in the first place, Nikki said no, but the family felt it was the best and easiest way without having to directly give it to them.

 And to answer your question about what happened, he drowned in the pool. Could not have been under more than 2 minutes, but was gone ,for what the doctors believe to be about 10 minutes. They revived him and he is now on life support. Today they will decide to take the life support off or not.

Your questions were not insensitive at all. Just step into their shoes. Would you work while your baby was on life support and anything could happen at any moment? Perfectly appropriate question, there is just no way to have it available for friends and family, but hide it from "supporters". Know what I mean?

 Thank you again for all of your prayers and support. Today is going to be a hard one.

 God Bless..

Brit

Re: A few of you had questions re: Devyn..

  • I'm sorry people questioned your story.  That was wrong.  I remember you from when you were a regular on the nest.  You are a Dec 06 mama, right?
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  • I am so sorry for what your family is going through.

    ((HUGS))

  • It's okay.. I understand the question.. believe me.. I have struggled sharing the story alone because of it being on there and didnt want people to judge, but I have to keep remembering it isnt about anything but Devyn.. and me doing what I can to support him and spread the prayer request. My family is HUGE into prayers, and to be frank, they have worked so far. I remember when I FIRST got the call. All I heard was "Brittany Devyn is gone. He is not responding and he is dead". I began to pray while pumping gas.. the next phone call was " He has a heart beat!"..

    I am an October mommy, 06', yes. =) How are things? It sure has been a while.

  • I'm sorry your family is going through this. 

    I hope and pray everything works out.

  • Poor baby.  I'll definitely be thinking of him and the rest of your family.
  • Thank you so much. I will be there today for lunch. I will keep you updated.

  • I'll be thinking of Devyn and the family. I can't imagine what they are going through. 
  • I'm sorry. That is so awful and I will keep your family in my prayers.
    I'm sorry we questioned you. There have been some sickos lately who apparently got kicks lying about stuff like this.
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  • How awful. I'm so sorry for everyone. My prayers are with the family.
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  • I'll step up and say I'm sorry I questioned you too.  I'm a big believer in prayer and will be praying for all of you.

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  • Your family will be in my thoughts. ?
  • I will be praying for Devyn and your family.  I am so sorry this happened and will pray for a miracle. 
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  • Lots of continued prayers in your direction.  Please do keep us updated.  What a nightmare ordeal.
  • I'm sorry that I questioned your story. I will definitely keep Devyn and the rest of your family in my prayers.
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  • You have no idea how much that means to me. Thank you so much. I will upload some photos of little Devyn for you to see the happy little boy we all know as Devyn.
  • So sorry that we questioned the situation. ?It must have been hard to read that. ?You and your family will be in my thoughts. ?
  • Sending lots of thoughts & support to your family.
  • I have to tell you I am so sorry I questioned it and I wish I never did.  I can't imagine what his parents are going through.  After reading this I am just ashamed that I questioned it.  I have no excuse for doing that.  I am so sorry.  I wish I could take it back.  I will pray that Devyn and his family can find peace
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  • I am sending prayers to Devyn and his family.  I am so sorry that you are going through this.
  • Prayers will certainly be sent!  Many well wishes sent your way, I cannot imagine going through what little Devyn and his family are going through.

    Taks Care - Kelli

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  • I guess I have been jaded. I too apologize for thinking the paypal link was off. I am praying for little Devyn and his family. Please keep us posted.
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