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To celebrate or not?

SJC1984SJC1984
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We are coming up on our son's 1 year diagnosis. Part of me feels like we should celebrate since we've made it a year, part of me feels like we shouldn't because, well, one year of having cancer isn't a very *nice* thing to celebrate.  I guess I feel like we should acknowledge this since many, many brain tumor patients will never see one year, so I feel like we should celebrate his survival.  Do you guys think this is weird?
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    FunnyDFunnyD
    I don't frequent these boards but to me, it seems you are celebrating 1 year of being a cancer survivor.  While he may still have cancer, he is 1 year into surviving it and I think that's worth celebrating.
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    amajaneamajane member

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    I don't frequent these boards but to me, it seems you are celebrating 1 year of being a cancer survivor.? While he may still have cancer, he is 1 year into surviving it and I think that's worth celebrating.

    Agreed.?

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    akimboakimbo

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    I don't frequent these boards but to me, it seems you are celebrating 1 year of being a cancer survivor.  While he may still have cancer, he is 1 year into surviving it and I think that's worth celebrating.

    Absolutely agree! Treat yourselves to your favorite meal/dessert/becerage - you've ALL made it a year and that's well worth celebrating!

    We popped a bottle of bubbly at our 1 year Dx anniversay and toasted the strength of our family.

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    cranberry27cranberry27
    In my family it's a celebration day - we figure that dx day is day one of survival, so it's a celebration of one year of cancer survival. ?Plus, we would rather go for positive! ?Better to have a party than sit at home being somber about what we've been through in the last year.
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    AB&TBAB&TB
    I agree with pps.  Be happy and have some fun!!  :)
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    Kristin78Kristin78

    Ditto the other ladies.  Go out and celebrate

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    simmonsbaby2simmonsbaby2
    Go for it! You deserve a celebration for making it a year without going crazy!! Your son is a trooper and you should definitely celebrate this milestone.  I think that we tend to look at things in a whole new light and just because other parents might think this is strange...all the moms on this board totally get it! Enjoy!
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    Lil KateLil Kate member
    Celebrate the strength of your DS and your family.  You all deserve it!
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