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How do you deal with the disappointment of AF or BFN?

JoJoLiz6JoJoLiz6
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AF came this morning along with a temp. drop. How do you deal with the feelings of disappointment?
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Re: How do you deal with the disappointment of AF or BFN?

  • JennicapJennicap member

    I don't tested until 15DPO so I don't have to go through starring at a BFN and with AF its disapointing the first day but after a day or so I get out of the gloom and become hopeful of the next cycle.

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  • MrsBro6116MrsBro6116
    I'm not sure how long you have been ttc but generally the thought of a better shot the next month worked...Along with ice cream and a few vodka tonics.
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  • mrsadamc 05mrsadamc 05 member

    imageMrsBro6116:
    I'm not sure how long you have been ttc but generally the thought of a better shot the next month worked...Along with ice cream and a few vodka tonics.

    I would have to agree, although I like any vodka based beverage. 

    That and the thought that it just wasn't in the cards for us yet.

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  • mrs.Awoodsmrs.Awoods
    Enjoy the things you won't be able to do after BFP. Then gear up for the next cycle. Good luck!
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  • Married2MrWrightMarried2MrWright member

    It's rough.  Honestly I cried and was a b!tch for two days.  Prolly PMS, but I am sure my attitude didn't help. I was SO sure that I was KU and had a million "symptoms".   

    So I had some wine and few cocktails during AF, which was a first since January (March was our first cycle ttc).  Then I got over it and started preparing for this cycle.

    I am sorry you didn't get your BFP this time around.  Take care of yourself.  And just know that you're not alone.  It will happen. Yes

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  • Becky19Becky19

    1. Cry

    2. Drink wine.

    3. Remind myself there are many women who try for YEARS to get pregnant so I should get over it.

    4. Focus on the next cycle.

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  • 2becomes32becomes3
    imageBecky19:

    1. Cry

    2. Drink wine.

    3. Remind myself there are many women who try for YEARS to get pregnant so I should get over it.

    4. Focus on the next cycle.

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  • bobbidallbobbidall
    I tell myself that its not my time yet.  I think that this gives my DH and I time to save more money and to better ourselves for baby.  Plus I think about the normal sleep I will get for the next month. 
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