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Where is my egg?? just venting...

ibisibis member
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I've been O'ing on CD15 with two days of watery CM on CD13, 14. The cycle that I did use OPKs in the past I got a + on CD13. I didn't chart before m/c but my cycle was pretty regular at about 30 days and I think my LP has probably always been around 15.

Well, today's CD14 and no egg in sight. Sad I've been peeing on OPKs for the last 4 days and nada. No CM. Nothing. Booooo.

I've been pretty stressed about work and have family in town. I guess my eggie is waiting to hatch, but it's making me worry that it won't come at all. :( 

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  • PurpleK26PurpleK26 member
    Eggie will come! Just keep BDing every other day or so until you're too exhausted to do it anymore! I've never used OPK's, so this is the only advice I have! GL!
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  • ibisibis member

    I know, we have to stay strong with the FWP. We're burning out with my mom and sister being here, staying up later than usual, but we've been pretty good about the every other day... except we cheated once so far. 

    I want my Mother's Day BFP dammit... 

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  • texas77texas77 member

    uugghhh, it is frustrating.  i wish there was a better way to know about impending O.  it's great that we can confirm that it already happened with temping, but i want to know ahead of time.  like a week or so, for planning purposes.  LOL.

    come on eggie make momma ibis happy!

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  • suntoto@gmail.comsuntoto@gmail.com
    Stop stressing!  Get a mani/peti, or get your hair cut, do something for YOU and just relax!  It will come but stress delays them. 
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  • ibisibis member

    imagesuntoto@gmail.com:
    Stop stressing!  Get a mani/peti, or get your hair cut, do something for YOU and just relax!  It will come but stress delays them. 

    I just don't have time to relax this week! I am trying to get work done at the same time as entertaining my mom and 13 yo sister. I'm trying to please a picky client and it's not going that well... ugh. 

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  • suntoto@gmail.comsuntoto@gmail.com
    imageibis:

    imagesuntoto@gmail.com:
    Stop stressing!  Get a mani/peti, or get your hair cut, do something for YOU and just relax!  It will come but stress delays them. 

    I just don't have time to relax this week! I am trying to get work done at the same time as entertaining my mom and 13 yo sister. I'm trying to please a picky client and it's not going that well... ugh. 

    What about the weekend?  Won't you have some free time on the weekend?  You could send mom and sis to the mall while you did something just for you... if they are still there.  It really sounds like you need YOU time...

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  • ibisibis member
    I do... they're leaving Saturday afternoon. We were going to try to get together with our Little Brother on Sat after they leave but maybe we should postpone til Sunday. I should tell DH that I am just burning out.
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  • jen-dalejen-dale member
    I had one cycle a few back where I didn't O until CD19. Usually, I O at CD15. I was getting really pissed while I was waiting. And scared I was going all anovulatory because I have been having hokey cycles post m/c. It will happen. Hang in there, Ibis!
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  • JenyMJenyM member

    I def know how you feel. My egg apparently likes to come on CD30+. So, hang in there!

    :::Egg busting out of ovary dust:::

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  • suntoto@gmail.comsuntoto@gmail.com

    imageibis:
    I do... they're leaving Saturday afternoon. We were going to try to get together with our Little Brother on Sat after they leave but maybe we should postpone til Sunday. I should tell DH that I am just burning out.

    That sounds like a good plan!  Sometimes you just have to take "me-time"!  I think it is completely healthy.

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  • blondie223blondie223

    Hopefully, it's just a little delay in that eggie showing up.  :)  It will probably be "hatching" anyday now.  It would be wonderful if our bodies would just give us all a better sign of when there is a egg.  I guess that would be too easy though. 

    GL!! 

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  • waitingforbaby#2waitingforbaby#2
    I know how you feel ibis! OPKs stress me out when I don't get a + when I should. Are you using them 2x a day? Maybe you missed your surge? It will probably come any day now (hugs)
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  • deedeew80deedeew80 member
    I feel the same exact way Ibis!  Last month I got a + OPK on CD14, which will be tomorrow.  I'm so anxious this month thought, I don't know if it's because I started temping this cycle or what.  I'm even taking Mucinex and haven't seen any change in CM.  Hopefully this will be our month!!!!   I'm going crazy.  There's all these baby showers & pg girls everywhere I go!!  I just want to scream!!!!!  Angry
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