This is my first baby and we are working on breastfeeding. It is proving to be very difficult. We've been spending about 45 minutes just trying to get a good latch and when she finally does she only stays on for about 10 minutes. And once she lets go she's done for good cuz her hunger urge is quelled enough that she doesn't care to work that hard to get another latch. I tried pumping to get the enorgement down so she could latch better, didn't help. I tried a breast shield and it was magical, no crying, quicker latch, and she will feed for 15-20 minutes and re latch if I stop to burp or she slips off.
I feel like I'm cheating and she won't ever be able to latch properly without it. WDYT? TIA.
Re: breast shield and engorgement, opinions please
Different people will have different opinions. I used one from day 1 at the hospital and we never could get DS to latch without it - currently EPing
. I have heard of many people that are able to wean off the shield after a few weeks and LO gets stronger and able to latch correcly without it. Have you seen a LC yet? I wouldn't hesitate to seek help especially since you're so early in the game.
I needed it in the beginning- it worked wonders for us. I used it for a few days, then I'd try to nurse without it. I was able to get her off of it by 2 months.
I'd say it's fine to use right now..just keep trying to feed her without it, but if that doesn't work, use it. Good luck!
I used it with my first child for 3 months and continued to attempt without it at least 1-2 feedings a day and one day he just did it without! I went on to nurse for 4 more months after that!
Now if I could just get this new one to even latch onto the breast shield . . .