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I can't believe!

mandabear324mandabear324 member
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That I am about to do this all over again!  This wasn't planned at all, and my DS is only 5 months!  I am so terrified!  Excited, but terrified!  And my DH isn't very supportive.  He didn't want another one, so I am pretty much going through this alone. 
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  • mrsmacias2008mrsmacias2008 member
    it's called BC.
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  • mandabear324mandabear324 member
    Yes, I was on BC.  Things happen.  Thanks for the support b!tch.
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  • mrsmacias2008mrsmacias2008 member
    whoa whoa whoa biotch....Don't get your panties in a knot. Then you would know that BC isn't 100% effective...GL with that.
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  • CountryLady5811CountryLady5811

    This just makes me really sad.

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  • mandabear324mandabear324 member
    This board used to have nice people on it.  I guess it's not so nice anymore.
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  • miss_beckmanmiss_beckman member

    imagemandabear324:
    That I am about to do this all over again!  This wasn't planned at all, and my DS is only 5 months!  I am so terrified!  Excited, but terrified!  And my DH isn't very supportive.  He didn't want another one, so I am pretty much going through this alone. 

     

    Im there with ya! Unplanned but DH is supportive- Im the one who's totally not ready- I was happy with one and this one just surprised me. Im excited but freaking out- Im here for you if you need an ear/support. Good Luck!

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  • pamela consuegrapamela consuegra

    so much for my assumption that this board was supportive...

    Good LUck with your pregnancy... I'm sure the DH will come around, he's probably in shock as much as you are! Just remember that stress isn't healthy for either of you, so do your best to relax.

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  • mrsmacias2008mrsmacias2008 member

    imagemandabear324:
    This board used to have nice people on it.  I guess it's not so nice anymore.

    says the girl who calls another a b*tch....

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  • cjillacjilla
    I say ditch the hubby, LOL.
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  • mandabear324mandabear324 member
    Thank you.  I am glad to see some people still have a heart.  I know DH will come around.  And I am excited that our children will be close in age.  At least I've still got lots of cute maternity clothes!  :)
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  • pmarie33pmarie33 member

    imagemandabear324:
    Yes, I was on BC.  Things happen.  Thanks for the support b!tch.

    damn, who pissed in your Cheerios?

    Some people don't understand the concept of BC.  I'd like to know which one you were on so I won't make the mistake of using it.  Did you forget to take it some days?  There's got to be more to the story than just what you've written.

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  • excited4babiesexcited4babies
    i wouldnt worry about the hormonal b****es on here! they have their days but for the most part everyone is alright! GL on your pregnancy
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  • mandabear324mandabear324 member

    Thank you.  :)  This board was amazing through my last pregnancy.  I had an awesome labor buddy, and on days when your down and not feeling so good, the ladies on here are sure to bring laughter and joy to your day.

    By the way, if you're having your first baby, you will learn that it takes awhile for your body to get back to normal, even if you are on birth control.  I'm not a doctor or anything, but I did take my BC as directed, and no, I didn't forget any.

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  • Nikki_JoNikki_Jo

    I would tell your dh that it takes 2 to make a baby so he better get supportive.  It's not as if you were skipping pills in the hopes of getting pg.  He can always get snipped and/or wear condoms if he didn't want more children.

    Hope you have a h and h 9 months and that your dh gets supportive!

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  • farrellashleighfarrellashleigh member

    Yes dear, unfortunately some of the ladies on here are just plain mean and their comments are unfounded... but luckily there are others who actually are here to support and encourage...

    And did anyone NOT understand the concept that there isn't a BC in the world that's 100% effective other than sterilization??!! HELLO, it happens, I have 4 separate women in my family who were on BCP, taking them perfectly and ended up pregnant... all 4. And if that isn't enough all 4 had regular periods AFTER becoming pregnant and had no indication they were pregnant until about 5-6 mos or so... so YES stranger things have happened than getting pregnant while on BC!

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