I have picked out so many names, even names that I would never have named my child before that have kinda grown on me. DH turns down every one. With our DD he waited til the last minute to agree to one so I'm guessing if I hold back on one he'll agree to it at the end. Wouldn't it be easier if DH didn't care?
Re: Who else is just waiting on DH to agree to a name?
Hmm... are we married to the same man?
I definitely hear you. My favorite is when I suggest a name that DH immediately turns down and dislikes. THEN, at a later time, he suggests the exact same name!!!!! This has happened 2-3 times now.
This actually happened with a few names that are now at the top of our list.... only because I pretend they are now his ideas.
It would be easier if they didn't care. I say have your top picks, and if he can never suggest anything better, go with what you have.
I think it may just be that most men aren't very good namers, but they think they are, or wish they were, so they turn down our suggestions in hopes that they'll have an epiphany.