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I don't understand why some people have babies

jenerallyjenerally member
in Babies: 0 - 3 Months

It hard work, parenting is. You can't be selfish anymore. And you constantly question yourself and your abilites.

But if you are on this board (because you have a baby younger than 6 mo old)? YOU CANNOT SPOIL YOUR BABY. Go and get him/her when they cry! Co-sleep if it brings them comfort! Feed them on demand, not when your pediatrican tells you to! Does your pediatrician LIVE with you?

DO NOT let your baby wail for an hour. Even Ferber (in the 2006 update of his book) recommends: "Simply leaving a child in a crib to cry for long periods alone until he falls sleep, no matter how long it takes, is not an approach I approve of. On the contrary, many of the approaches I recommend are designed specifically to avoid unnecessary crying."

YOU KNOW YOUR BABY BEST!

/soapbox

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  • cajuncutie0169cajuncutie0169
    oooh what brought this on?! was it pc and her not feeding the baby bc she simply cannot be hungry that soon?
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  • jenerallyjenerally member

    imagecajuncutie0169:
    oooh what brought this on?! was it pc and her not feeding the baby bc she simply cannot be hungry that soon?
    oh, I missed that one.

    it's here ... but it's IRL too.

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  • GramysonGramyson member

    they have babies so they can have a BFF, duh!

     

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  • EveryNameIWantIsTakenEveryNameIWantIsTaken member

    imagecajuncutie0169:
    oooh what brought this on?! was it pc and her not feeding the baby bc she simply cannot be hungry that soon?

     

    Where is this?  There was another one the other night where I just wanted to scream at her to feed her damn kid.  Maybe I need to stop being so nice and say what's on my mind here sometimes.  People would for sure remember me then lol.

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  • jenerallyjenerally member
    imageEveryNameIWantIsTaken:

    imagecajuncutie0169:
    oooh what brought this on?! was it pc and her not feeding the baby bc she simply cannot be hungry that soon?

     

    Where is this?  There was another one the other night where I just wanted to scream at her to feed her damn kid.  Maybe I need to stop being so nice and say what's on my mind here sometimes.  People would for sure remember me then lol.

    I remember you b/c of your clever sn!

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  • EveryNameIWantIsTakenEveryNameIWantIsTaken member
    Haha thanks.  Maybe someday I'll let the biitch out of me.  We'll see after I start back to work Wednesday and have no patience left.
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  • jenerallyjenerally member
    you'll feel better once you do!
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