Community› The Bump Message Boards› Secondary IF
Secondary IF
New Discussion

Can I cry here for a moment?

GM&DGGM&DG
in Secondary IF

Hi.

DS turned 1 on the 1st. We had an FET on the 8th. I am just praying that all is well and that this is it so that IF is over for us. We went through 3 years of it before DS. We just got back from DS's 1 yr check up and his pedi, who had a baby 2 weeks after DS is huge and pregnant on accident and due in August. I am very happy for her. She is such a sweet person and so very happy. I just feel crushed that This is what we have to do to have a baby and I just want it to have worked so badly.

Thanks for listening.

Report Reply to Post

Re: Can I cry here for a moment?

  • Home_sliceHome_slice

    Good luck with the FET!

    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • JosiPeachesJosiPeaches
    (((HUGS)))  It is hard.  IF sucks and it sucks that we have to go through it.  Hang in there and GL with your FET.
    Report Reply
  • ladavisladavis
    IF royally sucks and I'm sorry that you are down today BUT good luck with your FET!!  That's exciting and hopefully you will get a BFP soon!
    Report Reply
  • franciscazfranciscaz member
    (((HUGS)))... it doesn't hardly seem fair does it why some don't have any issue and others struggle.  GL w/that FET and yes you are in a good place.   We just had 2 girls FET success and I think 2 more undergoing it while you are.  Let us know how you are doing!  Smile
    Mom to Harmon 1/17/08 and twins Rachel & Callum 8/28/09 Photobucket 29o0v13.jpg
    Report Reply
  • waitingforbaby#2waitingforbaby#2
    It's doesn't seem fair when some people get pg so easily and you struggle so hard. Good luck with the FET :)   (hugs)
    Report Reply
  • eyenerdeyenerd

    IF sucks!  I am going the end of this month to discuss my FET.  I am probably going to wait until Aug/sept to do it, but i just want to get all my ducks in a row.

    I remember feeling much better once i had my DD, but then I saw some aquaintances at church when DD was about 3 mo. old and they were pg again.  I felt the exact same way. 

    I always wanted 3 kids but if we are lucky enough to get pg again, we are going to jump for joy and put this whole mess behind us.

    You can vent anytime!!!!

    Report Reply
  • axr8111axr8111 member
    Oh I know the feeling. You see all these accidental pregnancies and it just makes you want to cry. Especially since I kept thinking that with #2 maybe my body would have an accident. No such luck. Good luck this cycle! I really hope it's the one for you!!!

    Report Reply
  • JillRock96JillRock96 member
    Aww, I'm sorry.  It sucks that we have to go through so much and others have it easy.  Good luck with your FET!
    My Favorite Books image
    Books read in 2012: 58!
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"