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ugh... DH is an IDIOT

JennlovesAustinJennlovesAustin
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Last night he suggested that pilates would help my sciatic nerve pain.  Maybe it would have but I could barely put weight on my left side, there is no way I was doing scissor kicks!  I said NO THANKs.  He told me I could not complain anymore until I exercised.  I sat on the couch bawling for the rest of the night.  Ugh, IDIOT.

I am making a list of things husbands should never say.  That was #2.

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  • lyse2143lyse2143 member
    Boys are dumb. Throw rocks at them.
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  • Laura AndersonLaura Anderson
    Ugh! Men can be so insensitive sometimes! Sorry you had a bad night Sad
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  • short1882short1882
    omg I am having the same problem on my left side....my friend is a physical therapist so he fixed me for a night but it's baaaaack
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  • ilovetolaughilovetolaugh member

    imagelyse2143:
    Boys are dumb. Throw rocks at them.

    agreed. 


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  • 4realyo4realyo
    lol. i found that if i walked a lot it hurt more while i was walking, but then would feel better afterwards. i actually ended up going to my acupuncturist and havent had any sciatic pain since then. hang in there.
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  • sare_bearsare_bear

    I haven't had that pain yet, but heard there are stretches you can do.  The girls on 2nd tri might now how to make it a little better.

    Sorry your DH doesn't get it.  Boys are so stupid sometimes.

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  • GlowconsinGlowconsin
    No offense, but I think you're being a little harsh.  He's probably just trying to be helpful in the only way he knows how.  He wants you to feel better.
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  • JennlovesAustinJennlovesAustin
    imagesare_bear:

    I haven't had that pain yet, but heard there are stretches you can do.  The girls on 2nd tri might now how to make it a little better.

    Sorry your DH doesn't get it.  Boys are so stupid sometimes.

    Yea, I am going to start prenatal yoga next week (they don't let you start any earlier) so hopefully that will loosen everything up!  I will be over on 2nd tri today though!

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  • scherphascherpha

    I am so sorry that you are uncomfortable.  Good luck at feeling better.  I agree that Pilates will not help.

    Just curious, what is the number 1 thing that a husband should not say?

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  • MSC03MSC03 member

    I'm sorry--I get the same thing from my DH when I complain about my back pain--I have a herniated disc. He tells me to do pilates or shut up about it. It's a vicious cycle--it hurts at first to do pilates, but it is the only thing that gives me relief.

    Can you do some light stretching or some pilates stretches that aren't uncomfortable for you? 

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  • JennlovesAustinJennlovesAustin
    imagescherpha:

    I am so sorry that you are uncomfortable.  Good luck at feeling better.  I agree that Pilates will not help.

    Just curious, what is the number 1 thing that a husband should not say?

    The first one that he mistakenly said was "You just feel X (insert nausea, heart burn, fatigue, etc.) because the book said you should feel that this week.  It's all in your head." 

    BIG mistake... he said it one day when I was feeling my worst...

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  • JennlovesAustinJennlovesAustin
    imageMrsSummitCounty:

    I'm sorry--I get the same thing from my DH when I complain about my back pain--I have a herniated disc. He tells me to do pilates or shut up about it. It's a vicious cycle--it hurts at first to do pilates, but it is the only thing that gives me relief.

    Can you do some light stretching or some pilates stretches that aren't uncomfortable for you? 

    yea, I am going to start prenatal yoga this week but they make you wait until 2nd tri.  Once I get a doctor's note on Wednesday I can start and I am seriously hoping it clears all this up!

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  • juietbridejuietbride member
    So he is going to bring you flowers and chocolate to apologize for his stupidity, right?
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  • nikinikininenikinikinine member
    I seriously know nothing about pg pains, but can you see a chiropractor or an accupuncturist for sciatic nerve pain?
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  • delg23delg23 member
    imageJennlovesAustin:
    imagescherpha:

    I am so sorry that you are uncomfortable.? Good luck at feeling better.? I agree that Pilates will not help.

    Just curious, what is the number 1 thing that a husband should not say?

    The first one that he mistakenly said was "You just feel X (insert nausea, heart burn, fatigue, etc.) because the book said you should feel that this week.? It's all in your head."?

    BIG mistake... he said it one day when I was feeling my worst...

    this seriously sounds like something my husband would say. I'm not PG but he's said stuff like that before.. grrrr ?Stick out tongue?

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  • BlairWaldorfBlairWaldorf member

    Lotion + his hands + your ass - sexuality = the equation to soothe sciatica.

    promise.  and then eat ice cream.

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  • scherphascherpha
    imageJennlovesAustin:
    imagescherpha:

    I am so sorry that you are uncomfortable.  Good luck at feeling better.  I agree that Pilates will not help.

    Just curious, what is the number 1 thing that a husband should not say?

    The first one that he mistakenly said was "You just feel X (insert nausea, heart burn, fatigue, etc.) because the book said you should feel that this week.  It's all in your head." 

    BIG mistake... he said it one day when I was feeling my worst...

    Thanks for letting me know.  I am not there, but I can only imagine.  I am sorry you are uncomfortable - I hope that you have found some relief!

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