My h and I had the typical policy that you get from your employer when we got married, but after I got pregnant and realized what dire straits the other would be in should the other die, we got LI from an independent co.
I am very thankful for this decision after reading the OP.
I do not want him to die (nor he wants me to), however, reality is what it is and now we know that Leila will at least have some financial security. Thank God.
Re: Do you have life insurance?
Liam is 5!
We both have Life Insurance as well. It was one of the first big "items" we bought after getting married.
Another thing to think about is having a living will. Who will raise your DD or DS if (*gasp*) both of you are killed in a car accident or something else. I know that was morbid, but you really do need to think of these things.
I have it only through my work right now, but we will be getting it after we get through the christening and get his paperwork settled with DHS. We are going to get the life insurance and wills done at the same time.
do what you need to get the best rating, cause I got dinged for having a knee surgery within five years cause I got hit by a car. Now, if Ihad waited another 2 years to get the policy, I might have had to pay a little less.
You can still get better rates by having an independent broker shop around for you. Wait until you are in good health; good weight for your height, non-smoker, minimal prescription meds, etc. You can even shop around after you've already gotten a policy that is at a lower rate due to some health "issue". I work for an insurance broker and we do this all the time usually saving our clients money while still getting the same death benefit.