On the recommendation of DS's pedi, we bought Ferber's book and used his method last night. We were desperate and hadn't slept in weeks. DS was waking for up to 3 hour stretches and not calmed or soothed by anything we would do (wouldn't go back to sleep, wanted to cry sometimes and play others). DH and I were upset and at each other constantly.  Honestly, I was so scared to use Ferber. We did it last night and it was SUCH a better night! The crying was so minimal that it was less than before! And DS slept from 8:30pm-6:45am with only 2 brief wakings and finally woke up happy this morning!! I know it is controversial and not for everyone...but for anyone who doesn't know where else to turn b/c they have tried it all....it sucks to do, but we are the happiest family we have been in months!                
                
           
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Re: Wow...Dr. Ferber Gave Us ALL The Gift of Sleep!
DS is 4 months. Just had his 4 month appt. We made sure he was healthy and getting plenty to eat before doing it. We also still kept a nighttime feeding and are trying to wean him from that over a week or so (it's 4 oz. and he really doesn't need it according to pedi).
I bought the book and recommend doing so for your peace of mind. It has a lot of info. about why it works and isn't harmful to your baby, if you are worried. As well as a section abut naps, what to do if it doesn't work, etc. It rarely doesn't work if used properly.