Pregnant after a Loss

**Jeffrae**

Ok so I probably won't read this tonight, I'm dead tired, but I need an update on you! especially since I have thus kidnapped you as a buddy! lol I need to know EVERYTHING!(I'm very informed when i can be Wink) I'll update on me: obviously you an read tickers and know i'm only about 2 days behind you, my next appt is the 7th, the day before my Bday. We have had 2 great u/s and got to hear the hb at the last appt, I thought DH might cry and he got a little misty, so of course I cried. We will schedule our 20 week u/s to find out the sex on the 7th too. I've popped a bit, but i'm a plus size girl to start with so I think it's mostly flab, DH has to tell me repeatedly that I'm not fat, so I thus have to repeatedly roll my eyes Wink DH has "squirrel time" every night where he reads to the baby and gives "him" a massage with the cocoa butter lotion. We think we are having a boy, and though we will be thrilled with any healthy baby it's been very hard for us to think of the baby as anything but a boy, our luck of course it'll be a girl lol. ok I think that's everything, sorry that got a bit long, feel free to respond long or short!

Re: **Jeffrae**

  • hey pentagirl!  I can be buddies with you too -- I connected with MrsLauren earlier today as we seem to be on at the same times and often.  But I will be happy to check in/up with you as well.  I connected with Capefall as a due date buddy too.  So it will be nice to have three people to stay sane with! :-)

    Happy Birthday!  My sister's in on the 7th.  Fun time to have your b-day, around Easter.  Hearing the hb with the doctor's doppler is awesome -- that is sweet your dh was there.  Mine has only been able to be at the u/s with me.  We have our next appt on the 16th and then another u/s on the 20th.  I am praying that our baby is still healthy with no markers then.  I am excited for you to find out what the gender is!

    That is so cute that he reads to the baby. I am just starting to try to get used to talking to my tummy.  Are you feeling the baby move yet?  I have been for about two weeks -- but today has been by far the most active.

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  • DH wasn't allowed in for my first 2 u/s because they were internal, hospital policy(the one tech told me when I asked about it that it's because you never know if you'll see a dead baby, and I had just told her that we'd lost 3 before! I was mad, but I digress..) so of course he wanted to be there for the HB, he has actually requested off every Tuesday from now until September because those are the days that I have my appts. I'm a little upset because I have not been able to feel the baby move yet, but everyone knows that I'm pregnant because I was heavy before and now it's easy to tell even though most of it's not baby. I'm hoping and thinking positive thoughts that your baby is healthy!
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