Do you read books on disciplining your toddler or do you just go with your gut?Or in the future do you plan to go with your gut or read books? If you have read books, please tell me which book(s). I think we are doing a pretty good job but sometimes I doubt myself and our dicpline techniques. So far we have just gone with our gut. I don't think ds is a bad child by any means but my mother makes me feel like I see things through rose colored glasses.