Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

Miscarried over the weekend.

I only knew I was pregnant because I took the test on a hunch.  I got 2 BFP's on Tuesday and Wednesday, started bleeding yesterday and now the test is negative.  If I hadn't taken the test I would have assumed that it was AF.

I am worried that this could be the first of many for me because I have a gene mutation that can make it hard to keep pregnancies.  I am meeting with a hematologist at the end of the month to talk more about what I should be doing while TTC and pregnant.

Only knew the little bean for a few days but am still so sad :(  I cannot imagine what some of you mom's feel like after carrying your little angels into the 2nd trimester or even to term.

GL to everyone and thanks for listening!

 

Re: Miscarried over the weekend.

  • Sorry for your loss.  A few days or a few months it is still painful. 

    As far as the pain of carrying to 2nd trimester I can tell you it is a pain like no other.  Overbearing grief sometimes to the point you think you cannot function..  But a loss is a loss and we are both grieving..

    I hope that you get some answers and that this is the last loss you will ever have to go through.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss.... it doesn't make it easier regardless of how long you knew.  In my thoughts and prayers.....
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  • i'm sorry for your loss. Good luck with your tests and specialist visits.
  • I had a 2nd tri loss but I don't feel like any of you ladies have gone thru any less pain than I, emotionally.  A loss is a loss, especially the loss of a pregnancy which, from day one of the BFP, we were so anxiously planning for.  Good luck with your specialist visit and here's hoping nothing stands in your way of a happy, healthy baby!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts are with you
  • I am so sorry for your loss. No matter how early a loss may be, there is still a connection there and it still hurts. Good luck with your specialist visit, hopefully everything will turn out just fine. My thoughts are with you
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  • sorry for your loss, i had that a couple weeks ago too, it does suck, its not the length of your pregnancy that makes it hard, its the getting you hopes up which sucks. its still a big crappy let down when it happens no matter what.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss...I agree with pps that even if you didn't know for very long, it's still painful - I was only at 6w1d and it is still so, so hard. You become so emotionally attached, make plans for the future, etc. It makes it hard.
  • You are not alone! I just found out this weekend that I lost my baby at four weeks, so I am in the same boat at the moment. I have never known such awful grief. I'm so sorry for your loss, but I am glad you posted this because it is a comfort to know that I'm not the only one who felt this way over a baby I barely knew was there.


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