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Has it occurred to anyone else that a 2009 baby is no longer possible?

Having an IUI fail sucks, realizing that a 2009 baby is now completely out of the question just puts salt in the wounds.

Hello AF, goodbye '09...

 

 

 

TTC since July 2007 a year on our own, 7 IUIs spread out over 2 years, all BFN IVF attempt #1 - September - antagonist protocol, called off CD8 due too poor response IVF attempt #2 - November - called off on CD11 due to low estrogen IVF attempt #3 - started stims Jan 25th...converted/cancelled Jan 31st...SWITCHED BACK TO IVF Feb 3rd! ER Feb 7th...lets DO this! ET Feb 12th, Beta #1 141, Beta #2 356, u/s #1 hb 141 bpm, u/s at 7 weeks 1 day no hb, missed m/c. So sad. IVF #4 scheduled for June 2011, last chance, this is it

Re: Has it occurred to anyone else that a 2009 baby is no longer possible?

  • Yeah, it's funny, DH and I were discussing the same thing today about what the due date would be if we were successful this month.  His response was "Bummer, no tax credit."  At least he is trying to make light of it!
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  • I have thought about that...the only way is if I get pregnant with twins with this IVF cycle and then its the last week of December according to the computer but a singleton would be a January EDD.

    I'm a December baby...you're saving your future kid some heart ache and fewer presents...think of it that way!!!

  • Yes!! I just blogged about that today actually. It's soooo sad...
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  • yup.  :(
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  • Yep. When our Feb IVF cycle failed I knew we were out for an 09 baby. Crappy.
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  • Isn't it sad that it occurred to me about three months ago? I've known for quite a while that if I don't get pregnant by this cycle, I'll be out for 2009. Such a bummer to be constantly doing that kind of math in my head.?
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  • It seems like that's all that's on my mind. If we actually got pregnant this time, our EDD would be Dec. 24. But due to our fun circumstances, I am not holding my breath on a 2009 baby. Sad
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  • Yep...I even blogged about it this morning.
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  • Great. Another thing to make IF suck ever more.
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  • Yeah. It's a bummer. ?Sorry to hear about your IUI. ?Mine went bad last week, and that's when I first realized that 2009 was out. : (
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  • I realized that, too, the other day. The same day I realized I would be at least 37 when I have a baby. Tongue Tied
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  • I am still crossing my fingers for my 2009 baby. My beta is Monday. My EDD would be 12/10/09. If this cycle doesn't work than yep no 2009 babySuper Angry for us.

    I do hope that 2010 is a good year full of many pregnant T-TTCers.

  • Yep, our FET puts us at mid-January. ?

    After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
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  • Yep - My husband and I were just talking about this last night.  So funny now to think I was pretty sure at beginning of all this that we'd get a 2008 baby.  Ha.
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  • I realized it today when I plugged my best guess ER date into the IVF due date calculator.  Here's to hoping we all get babies in 2010!
  • Yes, I thought the same when AF arrived yesterday :(

    This last cycle was our last of trying in our own.  We are now IVF/ICSI bound.  1st Consult is on April 10th.  Hoping for an early spring 2010 baby!

     

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  • Sure has...although I have a very slim chance still, we'll have to wait and see.

     

    And in my mind I said "Hmmm, maybe we'll have a baby in the next decade, literally." Yikes, 2010...I'm still partying like it's 1999, HA!

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  • If I get pregnant this cycle the EDD will be Dec. 29th.  I think getting a BFN this cycle is going to be even harder than the other recent BFN's because I know that a 2009 baby is out for us.
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  • Yes, that is depressing! Oh well I like even numbers better anyway!!
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  • Yeah, I know :(

     

    We've been consoling (such as it is) ourselves with the fact that we'll have a HUGE tax writeoff this year due to IVF. And we may look into buying a house as well, if money gets better, so another credit there. 

     

    minnteacher -- same with us, too. I've resigned myself to being 36 when we start IVF. If it works the first time, we'll just miss having a kid after 37.

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  • Yeah, I went through that in 2006, 2007, 2008......
  • Here's hoping that 2010 makes Moms of us all :-)

     

    TTC since July 2007 a year on our own, 7 IUIs spread out over 2 years, all BFN IVF attempt #1 - September - antagonist protocol, called off CD8 due too poor response IVF attempt #2 - November - called off on CD11 due to low estrogen IVF attempt #3 - started stims Jan 25th...converted/cancelled Jan 31st...SWITCHED BACK TO IVF Feb 3rd! ER Feb 7th...lets DO this! ET Feb 12th, Beta #1 141, Beta #2 356, u/s #1 hb 141 bpm, u/s at 7 weeks 1 day no hb, missed m/c. So sad. IVF #4 scheduled for June 2011, last chance, this is it
  • Yes, I realize that there is not longer a chance for a 2009 baby but i am still hoping for two lines in 09.
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