I have not posted in awhile but there is a new issue in my life.
How do you guys deal with SK birthdays and birthday parties?
Do you have one big party for both sides of his/her family where both parents go and their extended families?
Two seperate parties?
or other ways?
I have been with my SO for almost nine months now. He is my best freind's older step brother, I have known his 5yr daughter her whole life pretty much, but him and I met this summer. He has full custody of her and BM see gets her every other weekend. BM parents are very active in daugters life, they pick her up from school daily, and what not.
Things are been great between us minus so little bumps IE BM trying to get him to "watch movies" at midnight with her and their daughter when she has her just little things. It is annoying but I can not really change what she says, only my SO reacts.
April is the birthday month for us: SO bday 21st, daughter 24th, mine 25th. So this means birthday pary for their daughter. They are having one big party together where both mother and father families are invited and whatnot. BM parents are having a big birthday party at their house. I feel since that is at their house I am kind of invading their space and I should not be there. I have not brought this up to anyone yet because IDK if i am right for thinking this way.
Honestly please? i need it