My best friend who is throwing my shower is 20 weeks pregnant. I can't decide if I should buy her a gift that is for her that she could use forever or buy her something for her pregnancy that she may only use short term. I'm thinking about a pair a Majamas or a half dozen nursing tanks, just something that I know she will need but not want to buy herself. What would you buy?
Re: Hostess Gift ...What would you rather have?
You could probably get her something that is for her but a pregnant her. Like maybe something for a mom-to-be pampering. That is something I would want lol. If its not in your price range what you said would be fine. Mom's can always use more stuff for her pregnancy.
I liked the nursing gown idea. I think anything pregnancy-related would be appreciated, since it's so hard to justify spending money on maternity things because it's such a short time that they'll be used.
I'd probably also get her a plant or flowers, because that makes it feel more special (IMHO).
I got an Earth Mama Angel Baby Pregnancy gift set and LOVED it. Summer is coming..everyone could use a pedicure! I would pass on the nursing tanks.
Ooo... a pre-natal massage would be perfect!
I really think it depends on the person. I would hate a maternity gown. Total. Waste. Of. Money. I'm going to wear a tank top to give birth, I don't want a friend spending money on something that's going to get covered in blood, ruined and tossed.?
Same goes for massages or pedicures. I hate them both and would be sad that someone wasted their money to buy it for me.?
I'd personally prefer a nice picture frame (or album) that I could use for baby pics later. ?
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I'd get something for her, or that she'll be able to use for a long long time. I like the ideas of the massage, maybe a gift certificate to a photo place (for either preg. photos or after baby is born) or a set of notecards with forever stamps.
FWIW, I was given the idea of personalized notecards, and my mom and sister are getting 18 of them in a pretty box with a gift card for hostess gifts. your friend could also use them as thank you's as she's probably starting to get some baby gifts.