Parenting after a Loss
MayBride2B2007
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now we really need good thoughts
MayBride2B2007
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the hospital called to tell us hadley's blood work came back and shows signs of a blood infection. they made us bring her back and they are admitting her now. we're beside ourselves. she seemed so much better today. i feel like the worst mom on the planet. i couldn't keep her safe inside of me and i can't do it on the outside either. i just want to crawl into a hole.
please keep my sweet little girl in your thoughts and pray this can be kicked with the next 2 rounds of antibiotics they have ordered. and definitely pass that worst mom award. it is permanently mine.
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Re: now we really need good thoughts
repeat after me...
"I am a good mom, who loves her baby and is doing all the right things to take care of her."
I am thinking of you guys, and hope that the antibiotics do the trick. ((hugs))
You so are not getting that award....You get Mom of the Day for having to deal with all this.
I hope she gets better soon and I will be thinking about you guys tonight. Please update us as soon as you hear something.
Big Hugs to you and Hadley!!!
Oh May! I've not been on lately and didn't know there was something up with Hadley..I'm so sorry to hear this! Poor thing...and you must be so worried.
I don't know much about blood infections but I do know that this is NOT your fault. Don't do that to yourself! Hadley will be ok and will soon be home with you happy and loved. You are a GREAT mom.
May - I'm so sorry that Hadley is having such a rough time and I know you and Mr. Soup must be so scared. I really hope she gets better fast.
And please....STOP saying you are the worst mom. There is NOTHING you could have done to prevent this and this is in NO WAY any reflection on your mommy skills. Hadley is so lucky to have you, a loving mom who cares for her so much and is getting the best possible care for her.
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anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
m/c August 2007 - Blighted Ovum
Sean - Our IUI/Injectable miracle born Oct. 5, 2008.
Liam - Our second miracle born July 16, 2010
Keeping you guys in my thoughts, I hope Hadley is fully recovered asap.
Ditto the others, you are a wonderful mom!!!
Don't be so hard on yourself! You are a great mom who is doing EVERYTHING in her power to take care of her little girl.
(((HUGS))) Lots of good thoughts and prayers for you and Hadley.
(m/c 1.17.07, m/c 5.15.07)
DS - 03.15.08
DD2 - 12.03.09
DD3 - 3.28.11
Oh sweetie - You did nothing wrong! You're a great mom that you cared so much to get her into the dr's to someone who can help her get better!?
((hugs)) good thoughts, and prayers for all of you!?
Oh honey. Had you known how to prevent this I know you would have stopped at nothing to do so. Don't beat yourself up! Kids get sick. Good parents recognize there is a problem and get them to the Dr. So I'd say you're a darn good mom!
((HUGS)) and prayers!
You are a wonderful mother. A bad mother wouldn't care to take her dd to the dr, much less the hosp.?
I hope she feels better soon. ?
Thoughts and prayers that she gets well quickly!
you are definitely not a bad mom!
None of this is your fault. Or any reflection on you at all. Hadley knows you love her and that you are a great mom.
Holding you both in my thoughts. ((hugs))
m/c 1/2/08 and 3/12/08
Eve Amelia- Born 2/24/09. 6lb 9.9oz
Natalie Ruth - Born 6/13/11 7lb 6.6oz
May, in NO WAY is this your fault! Kids get sick. Don't even think about blaming yourself. Just focus on keeping sane while you help Hadley get better.
I'm thinking of you both and hope we hear a happy update soon.