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MrsWilliams2BMrsWilliams2B
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I haven't posted on here before, but I need some advise here.

AF usually comes on the 24th. When AF comes, she is horrible. I have the worst cramps, and bleed VERY heavily. Well...now, I began spotting. It was brown at first, with mild easy cramps. It began to get red, but it's more like spotting. I am not bleeding near as heavily as I usually do. I had some odd pains in my lower abdomen that I had never had before. I have taken tests and gotten BFNs. I have called and spoke with my Gyno who asked me to come in.

 

Beings that DH and I did the BD somewhere between the 6th and 10th (according to my chart, is the time when I am most likely ovulating...do you all think that I am crazy when I suspect I am pregnant?

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Re: Confused...this is a bit graphic

  • LucyAnnieLucyAnnie

    Well, you can't really go by the 24th of the month.  Some months are longer some are shorter.  Last month only had 28 days, its going to push back the time you expected to get your period. So its possible that you are just spotting before your period.

     

    If you are charting do you have an expected time your period should be coming.  Do you have a link?

    Not sure what direction we are headed. Either way, I am up for the ride.
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  • XXXXX222XXXXX222 member
    Because you didn't mention charting or OPKs, I'm assuming you don't know when you ovulated. ?It sounds like you're having your period now. ?Sometimes periods are late. ?Sometimes periods are extra heavy or light. ?It happens.
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  • princess101princess101 member

    A: You can say sex, we're all big girls here.

    B. If you took a test and it said negative then I would guess you are not pregnant. 

    C. We are not doctors and can't tell you if you're pg or not so either pee on another stick or go to the doctor like she wants. GL

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  • XXXXX222XXXXX222 member
    imageLucyAnnie:

    Well, you can't really go by the 24th of the month.? Some months are longer some are shorter.? Last month only had 28 days, its going to push back the time you expected to get your period.

    I'm not sure if you meant this to be funny, but it made me *lol*.?

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  • armandos_girlarmandos_girl member
    If you did ovulate between the 6th and the 10th, you would be 15-19 dpo, so I would expect that you would get a positive HPT by now if you are pregnant.  But there are too many variables to be able to know for sure.  Do you have a chart you can link to?
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  • ManalyzerManalyzer

    You only start on the 24th of each month? So your cycle is varying lengths. There's no way to know when you actually ovulated. It honestly sounds just like a lighter period, which can happen naturally.

     

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  • LucyAnnieLucyAnnie
    No, I didn't mean it to be funny, but I can see how it is :)
    Not sure what direction we are headed. Either way, I am up for the ride.
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  • AnasaraAnasara
    Chart links = super helpful.
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  • jlee1106jlee1106
    imageprincess101:

    A: You can say sex, we're all big girls here.

    B. If you took a test and it said negative then I would guess you are not pregnant. 

    C. We are not doctors and can't tell you if you're pg or not so either pee on another stick or go to the doctor like she wants. GL

    This. And you ask for advice. People advise you.
    Other than that, GL.

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  • ara072580ara072580

    plus, once you start really paying attention to your body/cycle- things seem different than they were before.  When you aren't TTC, a couple of days +/- around AF seems like nothing.

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    (P.S. I hope things are working out better for you and YH? ?That seemed like a frustrating situation.)
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  • MrsWilliams2BMrsWilliams2B

    Thanks for all of the insight and advice that you all have given. I appreciate it. I am going to see how things go, and take another pregnancy test in the morning per drs. orders. I do not have a chart to link to, as I have just started this. I was using an ovulation calculator as my ovulation predictor, and have been operating off of that. I suppose I should have posted this on another board, but wasn't sure of which one to do. I have been "lurking" on here, but haven't posted until now.

     

    Have a good night everyone.

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