Pregnant after a Loss

I think I'm joining you (and worried ? inside)

Hi ladies! I don't even know who here remembers me since I've been around SO long most of the ladies from when I joined are on PAL now, and I've been posting less on TTCAL and more on T-TTC lately, but I got a BFP last night and another this morning on a FRER. (Nice line, darker than any I've ever seen with my last 2 pg's) So it looks like as of now IUI#2 was a success!

I have my beta Friday morning, so I could use any good thoughts, prayers, sticky dust you can muster!

But of course I'm terrified because I've had a 5.5 week loss AND a c/p (more recently), and I'm feeling AF-like cramping off and on. Basically it started last night, right before the BFP. It's not bad, just worrisome! So please assure me that these cramps are normal!!! I really want to stay here for another 36-ish weeks!!!

 

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Re: I think I'm joining you (and worried ? inside)

  • Yay!!!!  Of course I remember you and that's fantastic you got your BFP!!!!  Congrats, welcome and H&H 9 months.  And sending you dump truck loads of sticky baby dust!!! Party!!!

    PS:  Cramping is normal.  I actually had cyclical cramps on and off around 5 weeks.  It was almost like mini cramp contractions.  And, I honestly can't count how many "I have cramps and I just got my BFP" posts I have seen since being on SAL.  So, it is normal. Smile

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  • First off I want to say Congrats!! I remember you :) I had the same cramps and my doc. said that was normal, I know it's scary she said as long as there is no bleeding, then everything is ok.  H&H
  • Congratulations!

    I had cramps on and off in the beginning...it is perfectly normal - no worries!!

  • *dance of joy*

     

    I remember you :-) Congratulations! *sticky baby dust*

  • Yay!! I remember you from PL and TTCAL.  Congrats!  And the cramps are totally normal.  I actually had really bad cramps in week 4 this time and was positive I was going to m/c.  It turned out to be constipation ...
  • Congratulations!!!!  Sending loads of sticky baby dust your way!
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  • Hey Lindsey,

    Lynn told me about your BFP and I just wanted to say Congradualtions!!  I'm really happy for you!!!! 

     

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  • you may recognize more people here than you think!

    Congrats!!! I am so happy for you! I also completely understand your nerves. I am holding out to pass my milestones, too, before getting too excited.

    I have been having some mild cramping off and on, too. It is normal, your baby is just settling in. I can't wait to hear your beta numbers!!

    I also just want to say, it is nice to see an "oldie" get a bfp.... CONGRATS!

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  • Hi :)  I remember you......being an oldie myself, ha!  Congrats!!!!!!  How wonderful!!!!!!  Please, please, please keep us updated :)
  • I remember you as well. Congrats on your BFP I wish you a very happy and healthy 9 months.
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  • Congrats, I do remember you.  I hope that you have a H&H 9 months
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  • Of course I remember you!  So happy for you and sending you lots of good thoughts for your beta Friday morning! 
  • I remember you, too!  Congrats on a successful IUI!!!  Cramps are very normal.  I worried, but was able to clam myself by remembering that they ar normal and that I wasn't spotting.

    I know it's hard, but remember your #1 mantra: Today I am pregnant and I love my baby.

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  • *super sticky dust* to you! Hope you're here to stay.
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  • Congrats Carebear!!  (I admit I was lurking over here)  I'm so happy for you!!
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  • Congratulations!!! That is such great news! Cramping is completely normal. I was always convinced I would start bleeding any minute after I got my BFP because I had so many AF-like cramps.
  • Welcome and Congrats! Remember that the cramping is very normal.
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  • Congrats CareBear!!

    Here's all my spare sticky baby dust, GL on friday!!

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  • OMG honey, I am SOOOOOOO excited for you!!! **does a happy dance all around SAL**

    And no worries about the cramping- I was cramping all last week, it's gone now, and it was just my little bean snuggling in for the long haul- I know yours is doing the same!!!

    When's your EDD?

  • YAY!!!!  YAY!!!!  YAY!!!!

    I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!   Cramping is totally normal ... it means that the little baby bean is burrowing in nice and deep and getting comfortable right now, and in a couple of weeks it will mean your uterus is growing.  Of course, I am still freaking out about my cramping, so I know that is easier to say to someone else than really believe about yourself!!! I really hope that this is it for you though, I want to hang out with you for the next 36 weeks too!!!!! 

  • Congrats Carebear!!! I remember you, that is SO exciting!!!! Sending lot's of sticky baby dust your way. GL!!!
  • CareBear, I definitely remember you!  I am so very happy for you!  Congratulations!!!!  And yes, cramping is definitely normal!
  • I didn't know you got a BFP, and I saw you over here, so I just wanted to say congratulations!!!
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  • Congrats!! I remember you! I'm so glad you got your bfp!!

    As for the cramps - I had some pretty severe ones around 5, 6, and 7 weeks. I always thought I was about to get my period, but it turns out that they were implantation or gas and everything is fine.

    After we saw the heartbeat for the first time, I started to calm down when I felt any cramps - and now I still notice them, but it doesn't freak me out nearly as much.

    I think once you get past those first terrifying weeks (maybe after you see the heartbeat), you'll be able to breathe a little easier.

    Good luck!!! :)

  • I definitely remember you! Congratulations!  Now take plop a seat and stay awhile!
  • Of course I remember you!  Congratulations.  I'm so excited to see you here.  Grab a seat and get comfy its going to be a great 9 months!
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  • OMG!!!!

    YAY!!!

    I'M SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU HERE!!!!

    sorry I'm mad late in responding but I've been MIA...I just had to say -

    Congrats!!  I'm so happy for you and I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy Big Smile

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