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DH needs to be throat punched?

MiaVonTMiaVonT
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For sure! Maybe I'm being to much of a baby? Probably not .....

 

All I have been asking for .. for the past month or so is a massage from DH .... feet, ankle or back. I don't care they're all hurting!

 

My ankles have been swelling up big time over the last few weeks ... to the size of my upper calve ...  my back hurts for obvious reasons and my hands have CTS ... and I can't feel 3 of my fingers most of the time!

 

I have asked nicely and have even been extra nice ... nothing!  His repspnse to when I ask? "maybe if you ddin't ask I'd do it"  Indifferent

 

ummm ok, so I haven't asked for over a week now ... I kinda been hinting .... he see's me trying to rub myslef with swollen hands and limbs and just stares at the TV

 

then today he has the nerve to tell me to do the Yoga DVDs ge bought me and maybe I wouldn't have this problem Surprise

 

Stupid a-hole! I think I might go on a laundry/cooking strike! 

(and ya'd think he'd massage me after trekking 2 flights few times a week for laundry! and having dinner done every dam night!)   Crying

 

sorry, cry baby vent over!

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Re: DH needs to be throat punched?

  • Stella's_PUMPEDStella's_PUMPED

    I get that response too "if you didn't ask I'd probably do it".  I'm still waiting too!! 

    I understand your  anger!!  There are times when DH will pet or rub the dog for hours but not rub my feet or back for more than 30 seconds!

    Cry away...i'll join you!  ::passing tissues::

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  • heidismithheidismith member
    He does deserve to be throat punched! I cant believe that he wont even rub your feet for just a little bit! That is crazy, plus you are having twins.
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  • eclipsed823eclipsed823

    A throat punch is in order for sure.  My DH is the same way.  It's always, "Remind me early tomorrow and I'll do it then."  But my back/feet/everythings hurts right now.  Ugh!

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  • Kflie83Kflie83 member
    What a jerk! Go get a professional massage and leave the receipt out in the open. Hahahaha!
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  • jnk062602jnk062602

    My DH says things like that too...Well I was going to but now I'm not.

     

    My dad used to do that to me and my sister all the time when I was little.  He would be like "I was going to take you out to ice cream, but then you teased eachother so now I'm not"

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  • lindeenweddinglindeenwedding member
    Are we married to the same guy? I get the exact same response, its has to be at least 3 years since he's given me any kind of massage, no matter how hard I beg.
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  • kayla_lynnkayla_lynn

    Throat punch.

    DH used to give me random back rubs since my back bugs me sometimes. Since becoming KU, I've gotten one quick one, and thats because he was hoping it would turn into sex. MEN!

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  • Kendall13Kendall13
    I give you permission to throat punch him... and with hold sex until you get your back rub.
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  • neesh776neesh776

    imageKflie83:
    What a jerk! Go get a professional massage and leave the receipt out in the open. Hahahaha!

     

    Damn right.... hit him in the bank account where it hurts! 

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  • MiquilinaMiquilina
    Well every time I turn around I am mad at my DH.  He doesn't understand my frustration.  He told me that he is doing the same stuff he has always done.  So basically the same stuff that I told him has always bothered me.  He feels like I am being extra. Man he worries me.
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