TTC After a Loss

FWP week?

Who's there? How do you keep it from being a chore?

I'm there and I'm like, ugh let's just do it so we can go bed already. TTC is killing our sex life!

If someone made a porn of our sex life, even a 13 year old boy wouldn't want to watch it...soooooo boring!

Re: FWP week?

  • If you had posted this during any of my previous cycles I would have been right there with you, but for some reason it's not like that this time around. Maybe because my OB has us on Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday schedule so we don't feel pressured to do it every day. Or, I did get the BioFit bra from VS which DH seems to really appreciate!

    But I hear ya! Hang in there!?

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  • I'm there now.  I just get myself into the frame of mind and then during the day sent a text message to DH or call him and flirt and allude to what to expect later so he knows what is coming as well!  I also don't announce that this is the time I am Oing, so he doesn't feel like I have only one aim in mind!  Finally, I have resorted to digging out some lingerie that I got when we got married and use that, just to make it a little more exciting.  Thats all I got!  Hope it helps!

     Oh. . . and I aim to FWP when he gets home from work, before dinner and before I get too tired.  But that may not work with everyone's schedule.

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  • you really should stop showing porn to 13 year-olds
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  • imagetellmeimpg:
    you really should stop showing porn to 13 year-olds

    Well I got busted for sneaking them weed and beer, I figured porn was the only thing left! :o)

  • We use porn, hotel rooms, and role play. It was getting so boring I tried to watch tv over his shoulder.  Now we get a hotel room for one of the days, role play another day (Cop & Hooker...he's tired of being the hooker though) and porn the other days.  I love porn so it works for me!
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  • we are doing it this week too!  We are not at the boring stage yet but this only our first month TTC "officially" (we weren't really tracking things before the m/c, and after we were TTA for a couple of cycles).

    we try to stick to every other day to keep it from feeling like an oligation.  I am worried about this happening if TTC goes on too long though :::crossing fingers:::

    BFP #1 = 12/23/08 M/C = 1/5/09 @ 6 w 0 d
    BFP #2 = 3/30/09 DD born 12/9/09
    BFP #3 = 5/17/11 EDD = 1/27/12
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