Pregnant after a Loss

*~*2nd Tri Check-In*~*

Hi Ladies - This is our weekly check-in for SAL ladies in their 2nd trimester! Please check your info, and let me know if anything needs to be changed. If you would like to be added, please reply with your name, due date, whether or not you plan to find out the gender, what your guess is on the gender, and (if you know) what it is. Questions of the day follow the grid. Also following the grid are a list of this week's upcoming appointments. Thanks!

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Week 14        
mb72105
Melissa 14-Sep Y Boy/Girl  ???
CEK977
Casey 14-Sep N Boy ???
shannonk03
Shannon  8-Sep Y Boy ???
ssnow
Sharon 10-Sep Y Boy ???
Week 15        
Mrs*Lauren*and*Justin
Lauren 1-Sep Y Girl  ???
steve&heather
Heather 4-Sep Y ??? ???
albertabride
Angie 5-Sep N Girl  ???
jeffrae
Rae 7-Sep Y Girl  ???
julia&jared
Julia  7-Sep Y ??? ???
Week 16        
perfectpeach
Julie 25-Aug Y Girl  ???
flygirl4ev
Heather 31-Aug Y Girl  ???
cowgirl
Lynn 31-Aug Y Girl  ???
Week 17        
Week 18        
Jill+Dave
Jill 11-Aug Y Girl  Girl
honeybeee
Ellie 13-Aug Y Girl  ???
SaraBobby
Sara  17-Aug Y Boy  Girl 
Week 19        
pebblesjns
Jennifer 10-Aug N ??? ???
llsanchez1986
Lisa 5-Aug Y Boy  ???
Week 20        
Sunny70
Chandra 30-Jul ??? ??? ???
Week 21        
jamie.LOVES.mark
Jamie 21-Jul Y Girl  Girl 
stinkerbell78
Stephanie 23-Jul N Boy  ???
mandyjn16
Mandy  22-Jul Y Boy  Boy 
Week 22        
michelle16_01
Susan 17-Jul Y Girl  Girl 
redtulip
19-Jul Y Girl  Boy 
Mipper
Misty 20-Jul Y Girl  Girl 
NelyBelly
17-Jul N Girl  ???
Week 23        
katie2shoes
Katie 10-Jul Y Girl  Girl 
sunnyday16
13-Jul Y Boy  Girl 
bellaciao
Ali

Re: *~*2nd Tri Check-In*~*

  • I'd like to be added. I'm Michele and my EDD is Sept 19th.  We are planning on finding out the gender but currently I am leaning towards girl.  My next appointment is with my OB on 3/26.

    QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's? DH's immediate family is definitely bigger.  This baby will be the 5th grandbaby whereas it is only the 2nd in my immediate family.  BUT my extended family is much much larger, so going by that it'll add more to my extended family. :)

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO? It'll be 4 years in June that we've been married but 8 years that we've been together.

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  • Add me please

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    Susan

    EDD: Aug 14th

    Suspect it's a girl, will find out this Thursday (the 19th) with regular OB appt, and Big U/S

    QOTD--It's a tie.  They are so excited, both sets of parents are dying to do stuff now.

    QOTD-Off and on for 16 yrs (JK/LOL) He was my HS boyfriend, we broke up after he graduated since I was still in HS.  Ran into each other at a football game a few years ago and have been like silly teenagers ever since.

  • Can you add me? My EDD is 8/22. I'm 17 weeks along.  I will find out ont he 23rd what we are having.
  • We've scheduled the level II u/s! It's April 27th Geeked DD swears we're having a girl but DH and I are both thinking Boy.

    QOTD #1:  They're all far away, so it's kind of a toss-up. MIL/SFIL will babysit more often but that's because they're the closest of all 3 sets.

    QOTD #2: It was 5 years in February. 

  • I would like to be added. Next appt is March 31

    Veronica, Due Sept 13, I will be finding out but I don't have a guess.

    My family  will be the bigger help, providing daycare.  They are also local unlike DH's family.

    By the time the baby is born we will have been married a little over a year.

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  • Great seeing you yesterday!

    Q1: My family is here in the area, about 45 minutes away. ANd its the first grandbaby on my side, so my folks will be more involved. DH's family is in Ohio, so they will probably visit 3-4 times/yr.

    Q2: Together 4 yrs, married 2 in May

  • Well, DH's family all lives out of town so they won't be able to physically help but I am sure they will be a big help as far as items we need.  My family is all local so I am sure they will be a big help as far as babysitting, etc.

    We have been together 6 years and married 1 1/2 years.

  • Hi! ?I would like to be added, please:)

    My name is Jennifer, I am due ?September 15th, '09. ?We are undecided about finding out, but leaning toward finding out. ?My guess is that this baby is a girl:)

    My next appt is 3-25-09 w my OB

    1st QOTD: Both our families live 1 hr away, so it might be a toss-up with who will be most helpful. ?I'd probably have to say my mom, but I really don't know on this one:)

    2nd QOTD: DH and I will have been married 3 years in May of 09. ?We started dating in 2003?

  • QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's? DH's will.  Although help might turn into annoyance!  My mom is not in the picture and I don't really picture my military man dad babysitting.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO?  We have been married 4 1/2 years.  Together for over 10.

  • QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's? Well, since my family lives about 6 hours away, DH's family will be a bigger help; however, if my family lived in town they would have been the bigger hlep.  Honestly, it may be a possibility our FRIENDS parents will be a bigger help than DH's parents.  We don't see them too often now, but I guess things could change after the baby is born.  Who knows, maybe we will see them more often and maybe they will jump at the chance to babysit etc.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO? We got married in Sept '06 and have been together since Aug '02

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  • OMG - I can't believe I graduate to the 3rd trimester next week!

     My parents will be a bigger help just b/c they live closer (10 minutes away)..DH's sister will be more help than mine though...

     We have been married for almost 4 together for almost 10 years...

  • Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives? Your's or DH's? I think my Mom since she is closer.

     How long have you been married or with your SO- We have been together for 4 years, married for 1 1/2.

     Please update, our little one is a girl! 

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  • QOTD: I don't anticipate either being very helpful.

    NBR: We've been together almost 14 years and will be married 4 years this August.

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    BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
    BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
    Met with RE in 5/2008 full cycle analysis and SA normal. Not considered high risk for blood clots but prescribed 1 baby aspirin a day precautionary during TTC and Progesterone suppositories during 1st trimester of pregnancy.
    BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
    BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
    BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014. 
    2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

  • QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's? They both will be there for us, but this will be be IL's first grandbaby so they will be more up in our stuff...if ya know what I mean! haha.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO? We were together almost 6 years before getting married. This July will be our 2nd wedding anniversary.

     

  • QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives? Your's or DH's? DHs....they live much closer and are baby obsessed...I'm sure they will be over lots. =)

     QOTD (NBR): How long have you been married or with your SO? We've been together for 9 yrs, married for 2!

  • Can I please be added? I'll have a c-section between 38-39w, so I'll be an August mommy, but my EDD is 9/5, I'm guessing girl, and I have my 16w appt and possibly an u/s on Tuesday 3/24.

    QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's?  Financially, mine.  In time and just helping out, DH.  But this time around will be totally different and I'm not sure who will actually be more help, because we live 8 hours away from all the parents.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO? met in July of 03, started dating in May 04, and married in October 05.

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  • okay I'm totally a dork and read the QOTD wrong...the bigger HELP will definitely be my family as they tend to go totally overboard...at least my mom does since I'm her only kid, she spoils DS as it is. I cannot imagine how it'll be with another one LOL
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  • My next OB appointment is tomorrow. 

    QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's?

    Mine will be a huge help since my mom's coming to stay for a while and help me with the baby.  I also have a sister that lives nearby, so she'll probably be a big help too.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO?

    We've been married for almost 3 years and together for 7. 

     

  • QOTD: While DH has family close to where we live, I think my family will probably be of more help. We expect people to come out here and visit and help.

     

    QOTD NBR: We have been married for 3y 7m

  • Hi!  I have an appointment coming up next Monday, March 23 - just my regular one.

    QOTD: Probably mine - DH's parents don't live too far away (a little over an hour by car), but mine are only 10 minutes away.  We see mine more often now, so I'm assuming it will be the same way after Mojo is an outside baby.

    QOTD (NBR): I met DH on December 16, 2005, at an Ugly Christmas Sweater Party, and we got married on October 13, 2007.

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  • i guess i m ready to be added - its interesting that the 1st tri list graduates at 13 weeks but 2nd tri picks up at 14wks.  do we get a week off for good behaviour?  :)  anyway, my name is kate, due sept 17, planning on finding out the gender and i m hoping for a girl.  i guess thats my guess at it.

    qotd- my family will def be a muhc bigger help.  dhs fam did hardly more than squat when ben was born, they didnt even come to see him (we only lived 3 hours away, now its more like 11.)  my fam on the other hand is fabulous and i am so lucky to have them (yes, maybe a little biased too but so be it!)
    dh and i have been married 3 years, together 7 and a half

  • I get to join you this week!  Yay!  Here is my info:

    vml14, Vicki, EDD Sept 15, not finding out, no guess for boy/girl

    My upcoming appointments are:  April 3 (OB appt), April 7 (u/s with MFM)

    I think both of our families will be a big help.  I know I'll be able to set up a schedule with my mom and my MIL to stay with me and help out for the first few weeks.  They all live out of town.  I really get along well with my MIL and my mom, so I'm happy to have both of them help.

    My DH and I will be married for 4 years in July, and we've been together for a little over 9 years.

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  • I have an appointment this Wed, but it's just an OB appointment.

    Definitely the bigger help will be from my family. My mom has already volunteered to stay with us for the first month. MH's family is so big and normally doing their own thing, so I will depend on my family most.

     We've been married for almost 2 years, but have been together for over 9 years now.

    Thank you again for doing this check-in!

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  • Hi there!   Had a great NT Scan today...chance of at least 1 boy but couldn't confirm.

    My next appt is 3 weeks on April 8th.

     QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's?  Probably mine since they are in town but DH's will be interested from afar.  only 40-50 miles but still not as active as my fam will be

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO?  We have been married for 4.5 years and have been together for 9.

  • Will you please add me? My name is Kim, my edd is Spet 2nd. and my next appt is April 9th for my big u/s. And my guess is that we are having a boy.

    QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's?

    DH's family will be much more of a help with the baby. Dh's mom is very involved with us, but keeps a safe distance.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO?

    5 years-going on 6 married

    total together- 10 years

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  • hi, may i be added as well?  thank you!

    my name is brittony (missaloha), due sept. 13th.  my next u/s is april 7th, but not sure if we will find out the sex then, i will be 17 wks.  at this point i have no guess!

    my family will be the bigger help, as they are the ones here, (dh's family is far away) plus it's the 3rd grandkid on his side but the 1st on mine!

    we've been married 2.5 years, together almost 5

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  • WOOOWHOO, I'm a GRAD!!!

    QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's? Mine...mom and dad live 40 minutes away and DH's family more than half way across the country.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO? Married for over 5 years and together for 2 before that.

  • QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's?  Neither -- we live in Seattle, my family lives in Alaska/Florida, DH's lives in PA.  We will be relying on good friends!  :-)

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO:  we have been married for 2 years 5 months and 2 days! 

    I have my monthly dr. appt this thursday.  I think I have to do my second blood draws for my quad screen -- and I am hoping to hear back what my results were from my NT scan too.  I am taking it that they did not call me with bad results that it is not bad.  I also get my paperwork so that I can schedule my big u/s in three weeks.  yay!

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  • ob appointment went great...the dr found the heartbeat right away...such a relief!! ?We got to set up the appointment for the big U/S...can't wait. ?Next appt and big u/s is April 16th.

    ?QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?? Your's or DH's? ? ? ? ? ??Both are pretty equal...but sometimes the MIL can be a bit too helpful...if you know what I mean...

    QOTD (NBR): ?How long have you been married or with your SO? We've been married for about 2 and 1/2 yrs and have been together for 9 years. ?
  • could you add me to the list? I am due July 22 and we are having a girl

     

    I think both families will help equally. I think our other 4 kids will be the biggest help :)

     

    Dh and I have been married 10 years this June and have been together 12 years this September :)

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  • I have an regular OB appt on Wednesday 3/18 

     

    OTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's?  Probably in the long run DH's because they are local (my fam lives 3 hrs away). However, my mom is going to stay with us after the baby comes for a week or two and she will be a huge help!

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO? DH and I have been married for 2 1/2 years but been together for 5 in May.

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  • QOTD: Who's family will be a bigger help to you once baby arrives?  Your's or DH's?

    Not sure - both live 12 hrs away.  My family generally helps us more often on a regular basis as it is though.

    QOTD (NBR):  How long have you been married or with your SO?

    Married 4 yrs & 7 months; Together 7 yrs & 7 months

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