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MCGMK · March 2009

Per the post below about the girl that just had her baby. There is an entire post on 2nd tri about whether she's lying or not. I made a second post putting my opinion on it. The fact that there is a debate over the whole validity of the post makes me sick.

KellyMichelle · March 2009

I know. It is just horrible.

2BWEDN2007 · March 2009

I posted as well in response. It is sick.

I DO have a 24w5d baby and he IS perfectly healthy now. The fact they are saying, "OMG! That is not even possible!" YES! IT IS!! My DS is proof of that. I think many of the 6-12 girls who are posting and calling MUD take their healthy full-term babies for granted. If they even knew what one of us had to go through they would STFU!

tierelieber · March 2009

HAHA! I just responded too. I found myself getting more and more angry as I wrote- you'll see the change in moods as you read through my response. People are so F'ing ignorant.

MCGMK · March 2009

Thank you 2BWED and tirerlieber. I have some back up!! Just reading everything pisses me off. I'm literally upset right now. Little do they know they just made of whole board of preemie moms very mad. Thanks again for the back up!

2BWEDN2007 · March 2009

...and to think we were just recently saying how nice the preemie boards are because they are drama free.

NotJustAnAuntie · March 2009

It's awful... I've seen crazy stuff on other boards (one faked suicide and one real death that everyone thought was faked) but wow!

And really, I find the girl who said her 28 weeker was only in the hospital for 2 weeks a little more sketchy than the new mom everyone's talking about!

april062604 · March 2009

my jaw just dropped to the floor. ?how disgusting. ?it's NOT something to joke about. ?they need to get a grip..................i'm queasy that they could even suggest the idea.

april062604 · March 2009

honestly "heyyred" makes me mad. ?all she does is criticize and joke (and talk about food = pancakes and brownies). ?she'll get fat. ?it'll come back to bite her in the ass. ?i'm all about karma.

april062604 · March 2009

i posted over there too. ?i got so fired up. ?and "heyyred" needs to get a clue and put down her brownies and pancakes. preemies do happen and they are small. ?

lvisser · March 2009

2BWEDN2007:
I posted as well in response. It is sick.
I DO have a 24w5d baby and he IS perfectly healthy now. The fact they are saying, "OMG! That is not even possible!" YES! IT IS!! My DS is proof of that. I think many of the 6-12 girls who are posting and calling MUD take their healthy full-term babies for granted. If they even knew what one of us had to go through they would STFU!

now wait... those girls are NOT saying that a child born at that gestation would not make it... they wonder how the baby made it with NO medical team (other then some dentists) around... Just sayin...

kamcfarlane · March 2009

i didn't see where she said there was no medical team...she said he had oxygen until he was at the hospital. maybe someone called 911 when she went into labor and they were responsible for the transport. and maybe she just didn't feel like she had to explain every last detail so that she wasn't called a liar. maybe she didn't have time to get to the hospital because things didn't go like they paint them in the labor and delivery classes. because that's not how things go with preemies. if everything was all perfect, then the baby wouldn't be here.

what really gets me is that they are trying to take even more of her experience of having a baby away from her. i didn't get to have my water break. i didn't get to feel a contraction. i didn't get to tell my husband it was time to go to the hospital. i didn't get to have my family waiting in the waiting room for the big announcement. i didn't get to hear the doctor exclaim "it's a boy!" in a happy tone. i didn't get to hold my baby for more than 24 hours after he was born. i left the hospital without him. he spent his first christmas in the NICU. but you know what, i was happy. i couldn't stop smiling. because even though i was scared out of my mind, i still just had my first child. and that was the only part of the experience that wasn't taken away from me when he came early. so i think that a bunch of people that haven't been there shouldn'r be so quick

to say that she's

kamcfarlane · March 2009

wow, sorry for the multiple posts! my computer spazzed out! eek!

Aidge · March 2009

This is just unbelievable. ?No one in their right mind should assume what she is writing is false. Unless someone has gone through what we have, they have no right to judge. No one can predict how they will act in such a situation, and if they say they will do such and such, they're talking out of their a$$es. ?Ugh, this is just so frustrating. ?Do these ladies have nothing to do but nest all day long and judge others? I have never understood the need to stir up drama at all, let alone on a BOARD. ?They seriously must have something missing, I just don't get it.

efortune · March 2009

I'm not part of this board, but I just wanted to say that I agree the posts doubting her were 100% out of line. I hope her baby makes a complete recovery, and that my baby goes to full term despite my short cervix.

tierelieber · March 2009

kamcfarlane:
i didn't see where she said there was no medical team...she said he had oxygen until he was at the hospital. maybe someone called 911 when she went into labor and they were responsible for the transport. and maybe she just didn't feel like she had to explain every last detail so that she wasn't called a liar. maybe she didn't have time to get to the hospital because things didn't go like they paint them in the labor and delivery classes. because that's not how things go with preemies. if everything was all perfect, then the baby wouldn't be here.

what really gets me is that they are trying to take even more of her experience of having a baby away from her. i didn't get to have my water break. i didn't get to feel a contraction. i didn't get to tell my husband it was time to go to the hospital. i didn't get to have my family waiting in the waiting room for the big announcement. i didn't get to hear the doctor exclaim "it's a boy!" in a happy tone. i didn't get to hold my baby for more than 24 hours after he was born. i left the hospital without him. he spent his first christmas in the NICU. but you know what, i was happy. i couldn't stop smiling. because even though i was scared out of my mind, i still just had my first child. and that was the only part of the experience that wasn't taken away from me when he came early. so i think that a bunch of people that haven't been there shouldn'r be so quick
to say that she's

Wow... You just gave me goosebumps. Very nice wording.

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