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I'm having one of those moments...

ibisibis member
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...when I feel left behind by the "graduating class" I came here with from PL. I am happy for all of those who moved on to SAL but it feels weird to see such a big group move on without me... I have only been here for 2 cycles. I think there are a couple of my classmates left but I hope you will be leaving me too in the next few days. :)
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  • TruGeminiTruGemini
    Me too. I know I'm new under this name, but I've been on the board since August. I feel like so many people have packed up and moved on. I'm happy for them, but sad for those of us who are still left. :(
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  • krate24krate24 member
    Aw, ibis, I'm sorry you are feeling left behind.  I know you said that this cycle you and DH decided to take a wait and see approach, so I hope that it leads to a BFP and you can get over to SAL.
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  • lil_rhodylil_rhody member
    I'm sorry hon. I know how you feel. I'm always so happy when people annouce their BFPs, but also a little sad that they are moving  on.
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  • gallerygirlgallerygirl member

    ibis, you aren't the only one who feels that way. unfortunately, that is why it gets harder and harder to stay on this board sometimes. being here since August, i have seen practically everyone i came over with go on to SAL by now. 

    happy for them, sad for you. i get it.

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  • ibisibis member
    In a weird way it's a big gold star for the charting method of TTC... just making a very rough estimate, it seems like at least 80% of the people who m/c at the same time as me have gotten KU within 2 cycles!
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  • ade2beade2be
    I'm sorry....I know the feeling.  I know a lot of ladies that I moved over here with have moved on to SAL and I'm so happy for them.  I hope that you get to move over there when you and DH decide the time is right. 
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  • TruGeminiTruGemini

    imageibis:
    In a weird way it's a big gold star for the charting method of TTC... just making a very rough estimate, it seems like at least 80% of the people who m/c at the same time as me have gotten KU within 2 cycles!

    I like the positive spin you're putting on it. Maybe we're just gonna be bringing up the rear of the sucess stories.

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  • ibisibis member
    imageTruGemini:

    imageibis:
    In a weird way it's a big gold star for the charting method of TTC... just making a very rough estimate, it seems like at least 80% of the people who m/c at the same time as me have gotten KU within 2 cycles!

    I like the positive spin you're putting on it. Maybe we're just gonna be bringing up the rear of the sucess stories.

    Someone has to be last I guess. Stick out tongue?

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  • superlupersuperluper
    I totally agree. People who had losses at the same time I did are already KU and I still haven't ovulated let alone had a real cycle. ?Sigh. MelisAB and I had ectopics at almost the same time and when she moved on a little part of me cried. BUT I'm sooo excited for all the BFP's too.?
    oh please. not KU. effed up.
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  • melmel10melmel10
    I feel the same EXACT way! 
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  • xleslieraexxleslieraex member
    Sorry I'm writting back late, but I am right there with you. Hang in there, our times will come soon. (I hope. Crying)
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  • BeckyS1211BeckyS1211

    I know what you mean, I've been here since December and I am wrapping up my 2nd cycle as well. 

    Even if I do get a BFP I will still feel more at home here than on SAL because I will be terrified so I will still be here!

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  • joakinjoakin
    Don't feel bad.....I've been hanging around for 9 months now......still waiting for my BFP.
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  • aksVAaksVA
    I'm still here!
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  • waitingforbaby#2waitingforbaby#2
    I think a lot of people feel the same way (hugs)
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  • thewarrensthewarrens member

    Ibis - -  we're all still here with ya! Don't worry - just be good to yourself....  and, most of all, big (((HUGS)))

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