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Help! I'm being stubborn

amanda&robamanda&rob
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Dh really irritated me today. I ended the conversation and told him when he was ready to have an adult conversation to call me back.  Well, that was at 11:30 and I haven't heard from him (pretty out of the ordinary).  We rarely ever argue. And we may or may not have plans tonight (part of what the argument was about). So, if we do go out I don't want it to be weird, so I feel like I need to call him. But, I really feel like he needs to be the one to call me. 

Am I being stubborn about this?  I am usually never stubborn and I don't ever hold a grudge or anything over people.  So, should I hold my ground, or not? 


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Re: Help! I'm being stubborn

  • BrideofrankenBrideofranken

    more info. needed.

    maybe you SHOULD be stubborn.

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  • amanda&robamanda&rob

    Basically it boils down to all week I asked him if he wanted to do anything tonight because he isn't playing.  He never said yes, no, anything about it. Asked him several times.  So my bff from HS asked me to do something with her.  Very rare do we ever do anything with out dc's. 

    I told mh that I was going to do something with bff and he got sand in his vagina about it.  

    I feel like now he only wants to do something because I was going to go do something else without him.  

     ETA:  He said some pretty dumb sh*t before I told him to call me back when he wanted to have an adult conversation.  

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  • K-I-S-S-I-N-GK-I-S-S-I-N-G member
    In times like these I will usually call DH and say something along the lines of "I am calling to give you the opportunity to apologize to me!" It usually works too Smile
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  • BrideofrankenBrideofranken

    I totally would call- I would be like him, b/c I never want things until I really can't have them...so he feels llike a victim ( a sandy vaginaed one.. (lol) even though he is not the victim

    indulge his babyness, and promise to make it up to him-then enjoy your girls night.

     

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