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Is it terrible

jk817jk817 member
in 3rd Trimester

that I am still sort of in shock? 

 I love my baby.... but I am still struggling with the reality of another person coming into my life.  I am going to miss life as just my husband and me.... I am worried about losing parts of myself.... and I feel terrible about it!  I firmly believe that God is in control and that He has given me the blessing of a child-- but I am still so fearful...

Anyone else feel this way?  I just feel like by this point I should have come to grips with it more!!

BFP#1: gave birth via c-section 6/13/09 to a baby boy! BFP#2: 12/8/10 miscarriage 12/25/10 (6.5 weeks, natural); BFP#3: 2/23/11 miscarriage 2/26/11 (very early, natural); BFP#4: 3/25/11: Beta #1: 14; Beta #2: 48; 4/11/11: heartbeat 137! Hopeful for a December 2011 baby! BabyFruit Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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Re: Is it terrible

  • icyblueeyez19icyblueeyez19 member
    I feel that way too sometimes, but then I think about all the things that dh and I are going to be able to experience with our daughter and how she is not just a blessing in our lives as inviduals, but as a couple too. I think it completely normal for you to feel this way and a child not only brings joy, but uncertainty too.
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  • pilotjenn2pilotjenn2
    I'm with you. I'm still struggling with the fact that I'm pregnant. That there is a baby in my stomach. That this baby is going to come out one way or another. It's all very strange.
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  • IWantMyCeremonyIWantMyCeremony
    wow I thought I was the only one. I was feeling like it will never be just me and hubby again. i think it is normal 3rd trimester feelings though. I'm sure once he gets here I won't be able to imagine him not being here.
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