3rd Trimester

Anyone doing a coming out party?

DH has been suggesting doing a coming out party.....where everyone who was kind enough to come to the shower and who is important to the family will come over and they can meet the new baby...a formal introduction if you will.

No one is required to bring gifts or anything.  DH just wanted to have food and family and friends.  He said it's the least we could do if they were nice enough to come to the shower and show interest in our new life.

Anyone else doing this?  It actually sounds like a good time....I just hope I have enough energy for it=)

Re: Anyone doing a coming out party?

  • Hadn't thought of it, but then again we have no local family. I would just worry that you'd plan for something like that, and then totally NOT be open to having a bunch of people in your house. Just a thought!

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  • We're actually doing this instead of a shower. 
  • I'm thinking about doing one when he's closer to a month old and hopefully the weather is really nice and we can all meet at the park close by and do a pot luck. I think it's a cute idea if you have the energy (and hopefully not a reflux or colic baby!)
  • We're having one at the IL's house when baby is about 6-8weeks old. They live 3-4 hours away and won't be up for the birth (thank god lol).
  • No...

    I think they'll kind of trickle in enough as it is.

    Sounds like an okay idea just, I doubt I'll be in the mood for entertaining.

  • A friend of mine just went to a "sip and see" party at her friends house.  I'd never heard of this before, but think it's a cute idea.  Same concept as yours, wine and food party. 
  • Not officially a coming out party. But every year we have a big Memorial Day party and our LO will be about a month old then. So I guess this will be his/hers coming out party.
  • Nope.  If people want to visit they will, and it would be much less stressful to have them visit a few at a time than have a party.
  • no way to stressful with new baby. maybe if you wait a while.
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  • The last thing I'll feel like doing is hosting a party...not to mention no matter what you tell people, they'll feel obligated to bring a gift..(or maybe that's just me Wink)
  • We did one with close family and friends but not until DD was almost 4 months old.

    I have a friend who wants to have a "Meet Liam" party for our second but I'm not sure I even want to do that for him. I just don't think I'll have the energy.

  • I'd never heard of this though it sounds like a cute idea.  My ILs had offered throwing a shower, maybe doing this a few weeks after the baby is born (around memorial weekend) would be a better idea. 
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  • At around 8 weeks, we are planning a bit of an unusual baptism for the baby.  We are going to have our BIL (who is a pastor) baptize the baby at my parents' house.  We will invite all family and friends in the area to participate (should be a pretty large crowd).  Following the short service, we will have a big party.  The great thing is that it will be at my parents' house.  DH and I will pay for the food and everything, but we don't have to worry too much about preparing or cleaning up afterward! ;) 

    I think it will be lots of fun, very meaningful, and will be similar to the party you are describing.

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