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Cheating on DH?

thenewmrsrussellthenewmrsrussell
in 3rd Trimester

Okay, I don't think I could imagine sex with another man if I tried. DH is just that good...

And yet, the last two nights I've had dreams that I was sleeping with another guy (some totally random non-existent-in-real-life guy - but he was HOTTTTT! haha)

I can't help but feel guilty.

Please tell me I'm not alone on this.

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  • DoubleDiamondDoubleDiamond
    I dream about other men...men I know IRL for that matter.  You're not alone.  You're also not guilty of anything other than having one hell of a good dream. 
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  • CantWaitforBabyCantWaitforBaby
    haha you're not alone...i haven't remembered a dream in awhile, but sometimes I'll have dreams about being with other men, non-existent men most of the time but sometimes random people from my past...very strange!  I'm pretty sure that what DH doesn't know won't hurt him when it comes to thisWink
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  • chefleigh2chefleigh2

    Dreamtime is the only alone time Robert Pattinson and I get.... Smile

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  • bmcquienbmcquien
    You are not alone.. happens to me too
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  • Ricky BobbyRicky Bobby

    imageDoubleDiamond:
    I dream about other men...men I know IRL for that matter.  You're not alone.  You're also not guilty of anything other than having one hell of a good dream. 

     

    this.

     

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  • lilwifey2belilwifey2be
    I have had dreams like this too and I hate it.  DH tells me that I talk in my sleep a lot so when I have dreams like that I wake up nervous that he has been listening to me say things in my sleep.  Haha
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  • thenewmrsrussellthenewmrsrussell

    imageDoubleDiamond:
    I dream about other men...men I know IRL for that matter.  You're not alone.  You're also not guilty of anything other than having one hell of a good dream. 

    Maybe I would feel less guilty if my sex drive was active during the day enough for poor DH to get some...instead of at night when it causes me to dream about other men! haha

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  • Sarahb34743Sarahb34743
    I'm in the same boat, DH is that good I have no interest in another man, real or in dreams. But the only thing I dream about thats even close is getting myself off! I wake up feeling mighty fine and DH wonders why he wasnt included LOL
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  • queenjohnstonqueenjohnston

    I've been having these dreams where DH is an _ass, and as you know, he totally isn't. But when he is being an _ass, he has my ex-boyfriend's face. It's really weird.

    I haven't had random sex with guys in my dreams, but the whole DH having ex-bf's face makes me feel guilty. *note it's only when DH is being an _ass.

     It's actually perfectly normal. I read when you dream about having random sex it just means that you want to look beautiful. Not that you don't like your loving DH :D

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  • Roothie427Roothie427
    My pg dreams are always a little more erotic than dreams when I am not pg....it must just be all the hormones
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  • Sugar HoneybiscuitsSugar Honeybiscuits member
    I had a dream last night that I made out with a tranny.  *shrugs*  And in this dream I wasn't the least bit upset about the tranny or his/her huge penis. 
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  • peeteethachpeeteethach
    happens to me to...and according to my Pregnancy Book... vivid dreams are normal. and it even lists different subjects you may dream about and what it could mean....and about this subject, it says 'you want to feel attractive'. in my case, its true. ever since i've been preg. i just feel big and clumsy and i just dont have the energy to keep up with my looks like i use too....anyone feel the same way?
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  • Mrslove78Mrslove78 member
    I'm always dreaming that he's cheating on me.  (Think not wearing wed ring contributes.)
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  • cher kesslercher kessler
    I'm not really sure if I dream about other men, I never remember, but I have tons of hot sex dreams .. . like every night.  Actually I think I've craved sex more with this pregnancy than any food or anything.  I know TMI but, it's kinda weird every time we have sex I just want it more . . .
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  • thenewmrsrussellthenewmrsrussell

    imagepeeteethach:
    happens to me to...and according to my Pregnancy Book... vivid dreams are normal. and it even lists different subjects you may dream about and what it could mean....and about this subject, it says 'you want to feel attractive'. in my case, its true. ever since i've been preg. i just feel big and clumsy and i just dont have the energy to keep up with my looks like i use too....anyone feel the same way?

    This makes sense.

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  • Covergirl137Covergirl137
    ::Running off to tell the Haunt::
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  • thenewmrsrussellthenewmrsrussell

    imageCovergirl137:
    ::Running off to tell the Haunt::

    NOOO

    NOT The Haunt!! HAHAHA

     

    The Haunt was awful last night. The Haunt is always worse than Needy Boy.

    The Haunt is Needy Boy hanging over your shoulder. UGHHHHHH

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  • nanantatonanantato

    imageDoubleDiamond:
    I dream about other men...men I know IRL for that matter.? You're not alone.? You're also not guilty of anything other than having one hell of a good dream.?

    This but its one of my co-workers. So when I see him I sort of blush, but then I know IRL it wouldn't be that way. Actually the other day I noticed him standing up and I figured out he's got a little wiener. LOL

    I know hands down he wouldn't even compare with my DH. ?

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  • Covergirl137Covergirl137
    imagethenewmrsrussell:

    imageCovergirl137:
    ::Running off to tell the Haunt::

    NOOO

    NOT The Haunt!! HAHAHA

     

    The Haunt was awful last night. The Haunt is always worse than Needy Boy.

    The Haunt is Needy Boy hanging over your shoulder. UGHHHHHH

    I love that there are like 3 personalities.... DH likes all of the other DH's now since they thought his Chimp story was funny.

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  • thenewmrsrussellthenewmrsrussell
    imageCovergirl137:
    imagethenewmrsrussell:

    imageCovergirl137:
    ::Running off to tell the Haunt::

    NOOO

    NOT The Haunt!! HAHAHA

     

    The Haunt was awful last night. The Haunt is always worse than Needy Boy.

    The Haunt is Needy Boy hanging over your shoulder. UGHHHHHH

    I love that there are like 3 personalities.... DH likes all of the other DH's now since they thought his Chimp story was funny.

    Sadly he thinks that we all refer to our DH's by these names. I don't think he realizes he's the only one who gets called The Haunt and Needy Boy.

    Ohhhh DH...........

    haha

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  • Sarahb34743Sarahb34743
    imagequeenjohnston:

    I've been having these dreams where DH is an _ass, and as you know, he totally isn't. But when he is being an _ass, he has my ex-boyfriend's face. It's really weird.

    I haven't had random sex with guys in my dreams, but the whole DH having ex-bf's face makes me feel guilty. *note it's only when DH is being an _ass.

     It's actually perfectly normal. I read when you dream about having random sex it just means that you want to look beautiful. Not that you don't like your loving DH :D

    omg, I've been having this  ALOT! Its sooo annoying!

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  • Covergirl137Covergirl137
    imagethenewmrsrussell:
    imageCovergirl137:
    imagethenewmrsrussell:

    imageCovergirl137:
    ::Running off to tell the Haunt::

    NOOO

    NOT The Haunt!! HAHAHA

     

    The Haunt was awful last night. The Haunt is always worse than Needy Boy.

    The Haunt is Needy Boy hanging over your shoulder. UGHHHHHH

    I love that there are like 3 personalities.... DH likes all of the other DH's now since they thought his Chimp story was funny.

    Sadly he thinks that we all refer to our DH's by these names. I don't think he realizes he's the only one who gets called The Haunt and Needy Boy.

    Ohhhh DH...........

    haha

    LMAO. Poor poor OldMrRussell....

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