Getting pregnant was really hard, but I feel so lucky because for the
most part, BEING pregnant was an absolute joy I loved nearly every
minute. And I feel like my birth was everything I wanted it to be. We
have so little control over our bodies and our fertility, so I feel
very thankful to have come through this with a little girl and feel
ultimately SPOILED to have had the pregnancy and birth that I did.
Recap: 38w2d 3 cm 60% effaced "You will go any day!" 39w2d 3 cm 60% effaced "Maybe we'll see you this weekend!" 40w6d 4 cm 60% effaced "We should schedule an induction" 41w2d 6 cm 80% effaced "I know I'll be delivering you this weekend." 41w3d Started REAL labor!!
I
went to the midwife on Friday 2/20 desperate to avoid an induction,
which was scheduled for Tuesday. Having a natural birth has been very
important to me, so I really didn't want to use pitocin. The MW seemed
convinced I would go before then and wouldn't need the induction,
though they'd been telling me that for weeks! She also recommended I
take Castor Oil the next morning to naturally induce. I was nervous
about doing it on my own, but under her care/direction, I was willing
to try.
2/21 11 am drank 4 oz castor oil with a smoothie 12 pm puked everything in my stomach! 2 pm had bad diarrhea (liquid) 2:30 pm timeable contractions started coming every 4-6 min! After about 30 min of those, we called the midwife and headed to the hospital
3:30 pm We
got to the hospital and were admitted. When I got to my room, I was put
in a gown on the bed and hooked to the fetal monitor. Contractions were
painful, but I could rest/recover during the breaks. After they saw
good movement/heartbeat, I was able to get in the jacuzzi bath! HEAVEN!
Contractions still hurt, but I was able to work through them much
better on my hands and knees in the nice tub. They also had some bars
around the tub to hold if I wanted to stand up. Mark was amazing,
helping me breath through all the contractions and pouring warm water
over me.
5:40 pm After awhile in the tub, I started feeling
too warm and nauseous, so I got out and sat on my birth ball. I was
definitely in a lot more pain and contractions were coming closer
together. I never felt an urge to push, but after awhile, the nurse
helped me into bed to check my dialation -- I was at 9+ with almost no
cervix, so I stayed on the bed. My water still hadn't broken, but I
felt a little trickle. Just as my midwife was about to break it, I felt
a big gush. Fortunately, the water was clear, so no meconium! I was a
little worried since she was so late and the castor oil!
6:20 pm Shortly
after that I felt a HUGE movement! My baby had been posterior almost
her entire 3rd tri, and I think this is when she turned. After she
turned and moved down, I had a few bad contractions, still not feeling
any urge to push, but they checked again and I was ready.
6:30 pm The
contractions hurt really badly, and somehow pushing felt much better.
They pushing was physically intense, but I was not in pain. During all
of it my midwife was using oil and massaging my perineum, which hurt.
(Thanks to my midwife I had no perineal tears!! I did have a small
labial tear, but it hasn't really hurt to use the bathroom or anything,
so I feel pretty lucky! I did Kegels and perineal massage for weeks
prior to the birth, so that probably helped too.)
Mark was
holding one of my legs and watched the whole thing! I hadn't really
wanted to watch and was even a little freaked out when the nurses had
me reach down and feel her head! But every push felt productive and I
knew I was getting close when the nurses came in with the warmer. This
motivated me, and I kept pushing harder.
7:40 pm I had one
huge push and felt her head come out. I waited for a contraction and
pushed again and out came baby Petra! They put her on my chest and she
was so squirmy and wiggly! We delayed the cord cutting until it was no
longer pulsing and Mark got to cut it. We are a family! Amazing!
Congradulations, what a unique name! How long does it take the cord to stop pulsing? I have read a few articals saying it is best to leave the cord intact for as log as possible because it still helps the baby gain function of their organs & it still tranfers important nutrients long after the placenta is delivered? About an hour? Thanks!
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Congradulations, what a unique name! How long does it take the cord to stop pulsing? I have read a few articals saying it is best to leave the cord intact for as log as possible because it still helps the baby gain function of their organs & it still tranfers important nutrients long after the placenta is delivered? About an hour? Thanks!
Only about 5 minutes or less. It usually stops shortly after it hits the air. We didn't do cord blood banking, but waiting helps transfer the cord blood to the baby. And it provides extra oxygen while she is learning to breath.
Only about 5 minutes or less. It usually stops shortly after it hits the air. We didn't do cord blood banking, but waiting helps transfer the cord blood to the baby. And it provides extra oxygen while she is learning to breath.
Request "delayed cord cutting"
Great, thanks!
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Hey Katie!! OMG you're pregnant!! Woo HOO! congratulations! Almost there too! Best wishes for an easy L&D!
We moved to NC about a year ago-- that's when we started seeing a specialist and did IVF and now I have a baby! I like it here (close to family), but I miss norcal and the book club.
Congradulations, what a unique name! How long does it take the cord to stop pulsing? I have read a few articals saying it is best to leave the cord intact for as log as possible because it still helps the baby gain function of their organs & it still tranfers important nutrients long after the placenta is delivered? About an hour? Thanks!
I think it just depends on the length of time. I'm choosing to not cut it until I have birthed the placenta, but that's just a personal thing. Definitely wait until it stops pulsing though. Some hospitals clamp it immediately, so be sure to let your midwife/dr/nurse know that you do NOT want it clamped. That will definitely be in our birth plan!
Re: My Med-Free Birth Story (long) castor oil
Only about 5 minutes or less. It usually stops shortly after it hits the air. We didn't do cord blood banking, but waiting helps transfer the cord blood to the baby. And it provides extra oxygen while she is learning to breath.
Request "delayed cord cutting"
Great, thanks!
Trinny! I remember you from the NorCal book club! Congratulations! I am so happy for you and your family!
Katie
Hey Katie!! OMG you're pregnant!! Woo HOO! congratulations! Almost there too! Best wishes for an easy L&D!
We moved to NC about a year ago-- that's when we started seeing a specialist and did IVF and now I have a baby! I like it here (close to family), but I miss norcal and the book club.