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jenbabe
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Moving back here....m/c confirmed
jenbabe
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I had my second u/s this morning and still no baby found at 7.5 weeks. Officially diagnosed with a blighted ovum and impending miscarriage. It is such a hard blow after 2 years and never getting a BFP, spending the money on IVF, getting a BFP and being excited and then having it all taken away. There is just not another IVF in our future as expensive as it is. And as a lovely reminder of this hell I get to make monthly payments on our IVF loan. IUIs maybe possible but DH's numbers are so low it doesn't seem worth it. I think a BFN would have been easier after IVF then this. If you've had a m/c after IVF, how do you move on? I just feel like there is no hope left for us to ever have children now. I just can't do a D&C after reading all those misdiagnosed miscarriage stories....I know its not me but I still feel like I have to let my body do this naturally. Except my body is so stupid it doesn't even know its not pg. I have had absolutely no bleeding or even spotting yet. I'm going to stop my PIO and hopefully that will speed things along. But it looks like I'll be back to the TTTC boards. SAIF was such a nice place, I'll miss it there 
Started TTC January 2007
4 failed IUIs, 2 failed IVFs
2012 - Adopted Child #1
2014- Adopted Child #2
2015 - Fostering Child #3
Check out my infertility turned adoption blog: Discovering Joy In The Storm
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Re: Moving back here....m/c confirmed
Because we're fancy like that.
My blog: Making Me Mom
TTC since March 2007 - currently on hold
oh no I'm so very sorry!! what a crappy morning on the boards.
I had a m/c after my FET, and I felt the same way - 2 years of trying, finally got a BFP, and then it was taken away from me. And we even got to see a heartbeat at 6 weeks - it was gone at 8 weeks. It was horrible.
I stopped all progesterone and had really strong cramps for several days, and a tiny bit of spotting. I finally couldn't stand it anymore and had the D&C. You should do whatever you're comfortable with.
((hugs)) and feel free to page me anytime if you need to talk.
First of all, I wanted to tell you how sorry I am. I went through the exact same experience with my first IVF. I agree that going through miscarriage after a BFP for IVF is almost like a double slap in the face. I actually got really depressed after my IVF miscarriage and sought counseling which helped me tremendously.
I am currently on IVF #2 and I am hoping that if it didn't work, I hope it is at the outset and now dragged out.
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. You need extra time to grieve. IVF is so taxing emotionally, physically, and not to mention financially. Try and hang in there.
After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
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I am so sorry. I'll be thinking of you.
(((hugs)))
I'm so very sorry.
I will be praing for you guys. Hugs!
I am so sorry. It sucks you have the bill now. That's the worst part, paying for it afterwards. It's like a sick little reminder. After my m/c I wished it had just been negatvie too. I can't even imagine a m/c after IVF. I feel so bad for you.
My D&C wasn't so bad. You should wait if you feel that's best. I had no spotting or no indication of m/c except that the heart stopped. Please take care.