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TTC After a Loss
MelissaAB5579
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Questions you hate to be asked or things you hate being told.
MelissaAB5579
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1. Are you trying again yet?
2. Are you pregnant again? ( Hello, this is only our 2nd cycle post-loss)
3. At least you can get pregnant ( wow, thanks, I would like to be able to carry a baby to term also)
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Re: Questions you hate to be asked or things you hate being told.
maybe your body just isn't ready yet...give it time.
OOoh I thought of some more...
You're so young, you have plenty of time
Just enjoy your time with your husband, babies will come later.
Stop stressing out, and it will happen---I just wish it was that easy!
1. Do you have any children?
2. Why don't you have any children?/Don't you want children?
3. God won't give you more than you can handle.
4. Shouldn't you be over this by now?
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
I absolutely HATE being told, "It just wasn't meant to be." Or, "It'll happen when the time is right."
Easy for you to say....
"You probably need to gain weight" As said by my aunt last week, even though I have recently gained weight.
When people tell me about someone being pregnant (especially if they're on their 2nd, 3rd, etc.) and act like it shouldn't bother me.
1. So, when do you think, you know, *insert motion over belly here* - ugh
2. What's taking so long?! Have you seen a Dr? - those who know we were going to start TTC in July, that do not know about the mc
3. Guess who is prego?! - yeah, guess who isn't ?!
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.
Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!
"Guess what, I just saw xxx, you should have seen her, she looked so cute. Her baby bump ::makes motion of baby bump:: so cute."
xxx's due date is 3 days after what mine would have been. One of my BFFs said that to me. I thought it was weird. Am I weird for thinking it was weird?
When are you going to have kids? (By people that don't know about the m/c)
Oh, you're so young! You have plenty of time. (By people that do know about the m/c)
-don't worry it'll happen for you one day, your time will comej
-That'd be great if you got pg too so we could be pg together!
-maybe god just doesn't think you're ready yet. yes dear coworker, so is that why he took the 1st one, was I supposed to be ready for that?
"Our greatest glory isn't in never falling but in rising every time we fall"
8/24/09 3rd cycle on 50mg Clomid= BFP 9/23/09 =10/8/09 m/c #2 at 6wks 2days 3/9/10 4th Cycle on 50mg Clomid = BFP 4-5-10 200mg prometrium 2xdaily 1st beta/progesterone 10dpo=43 2nd beta 13dpo=339 u/s 4/16=5wks 3days single visible sac and fetal pole h/b 4/28=Suprise it's Twins! 150 and 127 bpm Labor Buddy to Sonadora and Strunella
Ditto! Some friends of ours just told us that they're going to try to get KU in the fall (read: September) so it will be due at the end of school and she can have the whole summer off. Although I don't want them to go through trouble like we have, I will sh*t my pants if I'm not pregnant by then.
I hate being told how to get pregnant!!!
I guess if I had a m/c I already figured that part out, grrrr....
Natural M/c 12/13/08 at 8w5d
I hate # 3
4. Just relax don't obsses about it.
5. It will happen when your time is right
MY BF who had an M/C before was the only one who said what I needed to hear. She said this sucks. The M/C sucks, waiting to get pregnant again sucks, and then worring if another M/C will happen again sucks, but I will be here for you and will help you get through it. That is what should be said.