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Dual Shower....

AliciaSpringAliciaSpring
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My sister is due with her 2nd in August and I am due the 1st of Oct with my first we wanted to do a dual shower in May back home in CA, we both live out of state. She won't be able to travel of course in 3rd tri so I wanted to see if y'all think I am crazy or if this is a good idea to get us both at each others showers? Any theme ideas? I am a go getter when it comes to party planning, I want my sister to be at my shower and this seems to be the only way. What do you all think?
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Re: Dual Shower....

  • DMBMammaDMBMamma
    Well, it is her second child. You usually don't throw some one a shower for their second kid. But if you are OK with it, do it. My sister in law is due 4 weeks after me, and I already let my friends and family know that if they would like to throw me a shower, it will not be a double shower with my sister in law. Everyone deserves a little special something when they have their first baby, and it shouldn't have to be shared. But that is just my b!tchy opinion.
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    What the pp said.

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  • AliciaSpringAliciaSpring
    imageDMBMamma:
    Well, it is her second child. You usually don't throw some one a shower for their second kid. But if you are OK with it, do it. My sister in law is due 4 weeks after me, and I already let my friends and family know that if they would like to throw me a shower, it will not be a double shower with my sister in law. Everyone deserves a little special something when they have their first baby, and it shouldn't have to be shared. But that is just my b!tchy opinion.
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  • AliciaSpringAliciaSpring

    imageDMBMamma:
    Well, it is her second child. You usually don't throw some one a shower for their second kid. But if you are OK with it, do it. My sister in law is due 4 weeks after me, and I already let my friends and family know that if they would like to throw me a shower, it will not be a double shower with my sister in law. Everyone deserves a little special something when they have their first baby, and it shouldn't have to be shared. But that is just my b!tchy opinion.

    I am having another shower in AZ where I live so I am not worried about it not being special. My sister and I are super close and I had the idea. Thank you for the input I am sure I will get some opposition from parts of my family.

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