Friend dropped the "my husband is cheating on me" ball. . .

harvestbride · February 2009

Ugh. I just got back from lunch with a friend. She found out her H was cheating, not once, but twice (two different women)! She's a prominant lawyer, and beautiful, I might add! She was talking to me about them trying to have children not too long ago - so sad. It was one of those moments where time stopped and I had no clue what to say to her!

KatGapp · February 2009

that is so sad. Seriously, what do you say to that?!? And what is she going to do?? So sad

christina-marie · February 2009

Ugh. What a punch in the gut that would be. ::shaking head:: She is lucky to have good friends like you to talk to about this kind of stuff.

PlannedChaos · February 2009

And has she filed for divorce?

haleyw458 · February 2009

That's terrible! Atleast they don't have any children in the mix of this. That would make it even harder!

harvestbride · February 2009

PlannedChaos:
And has she filed for divorce?

Yes. I did say, "Well at least you know a good lawyer!" I did get a smile out of her!

DAuger · February 2009

That's so sad. My heart goes out to her.

LilyB2521 · February 2009

Wow - I wouldn't know what to say either if a friend told me that. It's so sad. What is she going to do?

JOEBunny · February 2009

This happened to one of my friends, same story, very successful lawyer, beautiful couple, trying to have a baby... The good news is, 8 years later, she just had her 1st child with her new husband, who is not a cheater and treats her with the love and respect she deserves.

harvestbride · February 2009

She's living with a girlfriend till she gets everything straightened out. She's very emotional (as she should be!), so I just hope she sees what a beautiful/successful person she is and not feel sorry for herself for too long. Ugh. I can't imagine. . .

harvestbride · February 2009

JOEBunny:
This happened to one of my friends, same story, very successful lawyer, beautiful couple, trying to have a baby... The good news is, 8 years later, she just had her 1st child with her new husband, who is not a cheater and treats her with the love and respect she deserves.

I like happy endings! Smile