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I just feel like crying

KristysRedBarnKristysRedBarn
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Today last year we found out there was no heartbeat.  I thought I was doing well, then I got to school.  I have been shown two baby pictures already this morning and pregnancy seems to be the topic of the day.  I also found out this morning that my pg co-worker has the same due date I had, just one year later.  Today totally sucks.  I would just like to cry, but I can't. 
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  • kekiskekis member
    I'm sorry, Kristy.  It's extra-tough working in a school surrounded by ladies who always seemingly appear to be pg.  Work hard to make it through the day, then go home and take care of yourself.
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  • ade2beade2be
    HUGS!!!  I'm so sorry.  I've not had to go through anniversary date, but its gotta be hard.  Seems like every time I have a hard day, all anyone wants to talk about is babies and pregnancy.  I hope your day gets better!!!
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  • gallerygirlgallerygirl member

    ::::big hugs::::

    Milestones are so hard... try to treat yourself to something nice tonight. 

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  • viollett99viollett99
    I Im so sorry. I havent had to go through the anniversary date yet either but my would be due date is approaching fast....as well as a co worker due two days later. I too understand how sometimes when you just feel like your having a bad day everyone else wants to talk about babies!! Hope you can get through your day and do something nice for yourself after work!!
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  • erinasherinash
    I'm sorry you have to go through this. I know what you're feeling, and it's hard to make it through anniversaries. I hope you are able (maybe after you go home) to let it all out! I found that keeping myself occupied and not being alone helped out alot (as well as having a huge cry fest)...I know everyone says that but it helped me get through several anniversaries like that.  (((((((((HUGS)))))))))))) Take care of you!
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  • BeckyS1211BeckyS1211
    I'm so sorry hon.  Milestones suck.  And a school is always filled with pg ladies and babies, I know it blows.  Soon you will be one of those pg ladies...big hugs to you today.
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  • lovesinthehouselovesinthehouse
    Oh Kristy, I wish I could just wrap my arms around you and give you a great, big hug! I am so sorry.
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  • blondie223blondie223
    I'm sorry Kristy!! ((BIG HUGS))
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  • MrsGhappilyeverafterMrsGhappilyeverafter
    I'm so sorry sweetie.  We're here for you.  ((HUGS))
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  • loveistpwsloveistpws
    Aww, I'm so sorry that it hurts.  It's okay to cry, if that will make you feel better.
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