please any advice on what will you be using/doing to help with painful contractions? im planning on going natural but im really nervous and little afriad that i won't be able to do it.... since with my Ds#1 i had an epi but this time i will try to avoid it if possible..TIA
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For my first, I refused to get an epidural because I'm one of those people who is like "we were made to do this." So...my midwife gave me back massages. I had music playing, aromatherapy, a birthing ball, cool cloths on my forehead and just deep, controlled breaths. When it got to the point that I actually wanted drugs, my midwife told me to wait, I was doing good. I thought maybe ten minutes had gone by by the time I asked again and really it had been a few hours so when I DEMANDED the drugs, my midwife said "forget it...it's time to push." And then out came the baby. =]
I still won't get an epidural this time...but I may go ahead and do drugs. I do know that the longer you put it off, the better as your second dose is less effective. At least that's what I've been told by the dr.
Don't scare yourself...you'll do fine.