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Dear husband of mine

Mrs.DonkeyMrs.Donkey
in Babies: 9 - 12 Months

Why, WHY can you NEVER come up with plans for ANYTHING?  It is not like an extra birthday bonus to tell me, "So...yeah... you can pick the place you want to go out to dinner and just let me know."  Uh huh.  Yeah, no.  How freaking hard is it for YOU TO PICK THE FARKING PLACE YOU ARE GOING TO TREAT ME TO?  It's not like you want the favor returned on your birthday.  It's not like you are itching to pick the place then.  Yeah, because you don't EVER pick the places.  EVER, ever, ever.  I am DONE picking the places.  And,clearly, I am turning into a PMSing firemonster right now, and if you know what's good for your you will not say to me at any point over the next three days, "Did you decide what you want to do?"

/vent

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Re: Dear husband of mine

  • fall-lovefall-love
    Did you tell him you'd really prefer for him to surprise you?
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  • Mrs.DonkeyMrs.Donkey

    imagefall-love:

    Did you tell him you'd really prefer for him to surprise you?

    Yes...yes,yes.  I say this every single year.

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  • minikominiko
    Are we married to the same person? Don't me he's a BI consultant.
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  • fall-lovefall-love
    Lol... I feel your pain.  Mine usually makes me choose, too.  What would he do if you flat refused to choose a restaurant?  And told him so?  Good luck! 
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  • goodtobethelarkstergoodtobethelarkster member

    LOL!  My H does this too so I go, "Ummm... Do think that if you pick the wrong place I'll be mad so you'd prefer to let me pick?"

    Him: "Yeah.  I don't want your birthday to go in a way you don't want it to."

    Me:  "Ok.  Well, see... I'm going to be pissed if you don't decide anything ever at all and you put the responsibility on me AGAIN.  If you don't pick at all you're guaranteed to annoy me.  If you do pick you've got a very good chance of not pissing me off.  What would you prefer?????????"

    Him:  "Oh.  Really??? But what if I pick the wrong place?"

    Me: ::: head desk:::

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  • BlueBelle2004BlueBelle2004
    My H doesn't seem to be able to plan things either... he would have forgotten to get me a card for Valentine's day if I hadn't mentioned that I had already gotten his... I've decided that I probably just need to come to terms with it...
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  • mikey&amiemikey&amie
    Um, are you sure you're not married to MY husband? ?He won't pick a place to eat, EVER. ?Soooooooo frustrating!
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