Anyone else? (weight question)

abrix96 · February 2009

I will be 18 weeks by the end of this week, and I have only gained 4 pounds throughout my pregnancy. I know that some women will lose throughout the whole pregnancy, but I am very petite. I am 5'1 and weighed 94lbs when I found out I was pregnant. I have always had a fast metabolism and have had trouble putting on weight my whole life. My appetite has tripled since becoming pregnant, and everytime I step on the scale I think my weight will have gone up. I am so frustrated and worried about what affect this will have on my baby.

Is there anyone else having trouble gaining weight?

als33 · February 2009

i wish!

afg · February 2009

What does your ob say?

I am 5'2" and am also petite. I haven't gained any weight either...exept for a pound maybe? but my weight fluctuates 2-3 pounds normally anyway.

My Ob said that as long as I'm not losing weight then not to worry but I have my next appt on Monday and will be asking her again.

AngelLuver_02 · February 2009

if your dr. isn't concerned you shouldn't be concerned. and FYI, these posts are not apperciated on this board.

mrsg052904 · February 2009

You don't need to gain much weight to have a healthy pregnancy/baby. In fact, the doctor would rather someone not gain much weight. If you are eating and taking your vitamins - there is nothing to worry about.

E&Jhssweethearts · February 2009

generally these questions don't go over well. But I'll tell you what most of the ladies will say, TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR. GL to you!

mitzi goodson · February 2009

You should just be thankful that you are not really gaining & as long as the baby is growing & developing well then I wouldn't worry about it too much!

evhamm · February 2009

just losing weight but I had extra to lose.

rmarruffo · February 2009

I wouldnt stress over it, it wont help any. Just make sure you are eating healthy, and the baby is healthy, thats all that matters. I also thought I was on that track, then gained 8 lbs in 4 wks! From what Im seeing, babies grow at different rates.

afg · February 2009

AngelLuver_02:
if your dr. isn't concerned you shouldn't be concerned. and FYI, these posts are not apperciated on this board.

In fairness, she did put it in her subject so if anyone didn't want to read it. she's just worried.

kristin329 · February 2009

Weight questions tend to get a little crazy on here.

Talk to your Doctor but I think you are fine. Everyone is different. My first pregnancy I gained 17 pounds and my daughter was 8 pounds 6 ounces. As long as you are eating and being healthy I think you are fine. My Doctor actually told me she does not expect weight gain until week 20. Of course often you will gain before but she says she only gets concerned after 20 if you have not gained.

Don't worry. You are just small. Lots of weight gain does not always equal healthy. Our bodies are all very different.

marcandjen · February 2009

Boooooooooo.

*Caress* · February 2009

I wouldn't worry if your ob isn't concerned, I'm sure he'll let you know if there's a problem about your weight.

LoveEeyore · February 2009

Yes, and although many women are about to jump all over your ass for asking a weight question, I will say I'm in your shoes and freaked out b/c I am having twins and am still down 3. (But I haven't been 94 lbs in like 15 years). I just have to let go of what I've read (24 lbs in 24 weeks to prevent low birthweight!) and trust my dr. The babies are measuring ok, and that's all I can worry about at a time. What does your Dr. say??

abrix96 · February 2009

At my last appointment, he wasn't too worried about it.

Today, he showed me a weight chart of how a normal pregnant woman gains weight compared to how I am. So I know that he is worried about it. We have our ultrasound scheduled for March 10th, and until I see that everything is okay- I am going to worry.

T&BMay142005 · February 2009

I am 16 weeks today. My body type is similar to yours (5'2, petite and weighed 101 when I found out I was PG). I have gained 3-4 lbs so far. At my last appointment the doctor didn't say anything to me about my weight gain. I do have an appointment in a few days, so we will see what is said then. I have been eating more, but I also eat very healthy (no sweets). Yeah, I know I am weird. So, yes its been hard to put weight on. I am interested in what others have to say. Thanks for posting.

DSteed-to-be · February 2009

If your doctor isn't concerned, neither should you be. Consider yourself lucky that you won't have to work so hard afterward to lose a lot of weight like some of us will!

orion09 · February 2009

uh oh....a weight post...not too many ladies like these...

but to answer your question i'm 20 weeks and have not gained a pound. lol... i know my pics in my siggy say otherwise, but i'm the EXACT same weight i was before my BFP. don't worry, as long as you're consuming enough nutrients you're fine. All women are different in how they gain weight.

on anothe rnote, my doc told me that yor body will rearrage your body during pregnancy even if you haven't gained weight to make the "belly" for your baby. weird huh? lol. That's how i got my "bump"

tandt92505 · February 2009

when it comes to weight, my doc has consistently said "Eat when you are hungry. Eat as healthy as you possibly can."

If you're doing that and your doc isn't concerned, relax and enjoy the ride. The weight will come. Promise.

MidwestTexan · February 2009

I'm 5'9" so anything I have to say in regards to my weight would be completely pointless compared to you.

E&Jhssweethearts · February 2009

if it makes you feel better, I didn't start out my pregnancy underweight by any means, nor obese, I have gained about 4 pounds and at the big u/s my baby was still measuring ahead. Really, try not to stress about it too much, maybe you aren't really eating as much as you think you are, try a food journal for a few days to see.

dmsmth · February 2009

Oh, you sound just like me although I weighed more pre-pregnancy. By 16 weeks I had only gained 4 lbs as well and by 20 weeks I had only gained 6.5 lbs. My appetite has also doubled and I'm shocked I havn't gained more weight. I am slightly concerned, but at the same time figure either the Dr or the nurse would say something to me if I wasn't gaining enough. So for now I;m not going to worry. Who knows, maybe I'll lust be a late weight gainer where as others are earlier weight gainers.

mrsDinMarch07 · February 2009

Jesus h what is with all the dire warnings about posting. The girl is nervous, it's not like she's bragging about her figure.

Would the same finger wagging come out if someone posted they were worried they had gained too much?

khagan9368 · February 2009

B*TCH!

j/k - I'm sure your Dr would say something if it were an issue, you can try drinking ensure WITH meals also...

E&Jhssweethearts · February 2009

mrsDinMarch07:

Jesus h what is with all the dire warnings about posting. The girl is nervous, it's not like she's bragging about her figure.

Would the same finger wagging come out if someone posted they were worried they had gained too much?

I don't believe anyone was finger waving, we just know how p*ssed people get about these kind of posts and giving her fair warning about possible responses to come.

Covergirl137 · February 2009

mrsDinMarch07:

Jesus h what is with all the dire warnings about posting. The girl is nervous, it's not like she's bragging about her figure.

Would the same finger wagging come out if someone posted they were worried they had gained too much?

Yes. The finger gets wagged at ALL weight posts, because everyone is so different.

And yes, it sort of IS like she's bragging about her figure.

cabana1 · February 2009

I can relate. I was told by my OB to start packing on the pounds 2 appts ago lol. I'm 5'7" pre-pregnancy 112, so yeah I'm underweight too (also blessed with a high metabolism). I've gained 9 lbs thus far but I eat constantly so I'm not really worried. The weight will come. Our baby was normal size at our big U/S. Everyone is different.

mrsDinMarch07 · February 2009

Covergirl137:

Yes. The finger gets wagged at ALL weight posts, because everyone is so different.

And yes, it sort of IS like she's bragging about her figure.

Well, ok. Though I disagree with your 2nd statement, I guess it depends on how it's interpreted.

toospooky · February 2009

If your OB isn't worried, then you shouldn't be worried about your weight either. Ask your OB your questions, your concerns, if you're worried that much about it.

I would normally be pretty unforgiving with a weight post, but you actually posted your size, frame, build, etc. That narrows down your window of people who can actually answer your question - so hopefully if there is anyone else out there who is in a similiar situation with a similar build, they can offer you more detailed advice. For example, I'm 5'8 and have a high metabolism, so I can't help you in that department.

Like I said, consult your OB if you're really worried.

Sally Goff · February 2009

People who get upset about weight posts should just not read them, instead of belittling a person with a genuine concern. It seems like they have stayed away from this thread so far, though.

abrix96 · February 2009

Covergirl137:
mrsDinMarch07:

Jesus h what is with all the dire warnings about posting. The girl is nervous, it's not like she's bragging about her figure.

Would the same finger wagging come out if someone posted they were worried they had gained too much?

Yes. The finger gets wagged at ALL weight posts, because everyone is so different.

And yes, it sort of IS like she's bragging about her figure.

I am NOT in any way bragging about my figure. I just needed reassurance that it is somewhat common, that other people have this problem too, and that my baby can still be healthy & okay.

JGM281207 · February 2009

At 18 weeks I had gained 4lbs, at my next appointment I had gained 9 more! lol So it can catch up at any time. Or, you may just not gain as much. My BF gained 13 lbs and had a healthy happy 9lb baby boy! Everyone is different, so like many have said, listen to your Dr., eat healthfully and all should be fine...Good luck!

toospooky · February 2009

abrix96:
Covergirl137:
mrsDinMarch07:

Jesus h what is with all the dire warnings about posting. The girl is nervous, it's not like she's bragging about her figure.

Would the same finger wagging come out if someone posted they were worried they had gained too much?

Yes. The finger gets wagged at ALL weight posts, because everyone is so different.

And yes, it sort of IS like she's bragging about her figure.

I am NOT in any way bragging about my figure. I just needed reassurance that it is somewhat common, that other people have this problem too, and that my baby can still be healthy & okay.

FWIW, I didn't think you were bragging about your figure. Some women are naturally smaller, weigh less, etc. It's nothing to point (or waggle) fingers at.

Now if she had said something like, "I'm a size zero and I'm totally staying that way, isn't it awesome? How about you?" - then I would see the bragging problem. Wink

julybride_07 · February 2009

I can't help you much, but I am 5'3" I wieghed 103 pre-pregnancy. I have gained about 14 pounds so far... But like pp said I am sure that as long as you are eating healthy and your OB is not concerned that everything is ok. Everyone's body responds to pregnancy in a different way, I am sure everything is ok!

slapierre09 · February 2009

I'm new to this board, but I just thought I would try to reassure you.

As others have stated, every pregnancy is different. I'm not sure how wondering about not gaining much weight during pregnancy is bragging, but whatever. Personally, I lost 20 lbs in the first four months from severe morning sickness, I've only put about 5lbs of that back on.

Now that I have started gaining though, my doc isn't worried and as long as the baby is healthy and measuring in the correct range.

My best advice is..."If your doctor isn't worried, don't stress about it."

fallbride00 · February 2009

I'm 15 weeks and at today's appointment I found out that I've only gained 4-5 lbs. I asked my doctor to make sure I was on track with my weight gain and she told me it's normal to have gained about 10 lbs by 18 weeks. This is just what my doctor said, so I'm sure everyone else's will say something different but just wanted to let you know.

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