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Fake wedding ring or no ring?

17 weeks and it's getting tighter!  Will you or did you get a fake ring or just wear nothing?  Thanks : )

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Re: Fake wedding ring or no ring?

  • I went without. We did get odd looks because DH wore a ring but so be it. It probably also did not help that I was 23 and DH was 28 but looks older.
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  • Personally, if that happens to me I'll do a fake ring.
  • Mel72... we are due the same week.  Yay!  I am going to get a fake band when mine get tight.  Right now if I drink enough water during the day, I can wear both rings.  During the week I don't wear my engagement ring because I do surgery and the two rings hurt under my gloves.  But I am looking for a cheap one to wear.  I usually don't wear a ring to the gym, but now I feel like people look to see if I am wearing one!


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  • Congrats on a July baby!!!

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  • I just went without.  I think I stopped wearing my ring around 30 weeks. 
  • I havent been able to wear mine since b4 xmas - no matter how much water I drink my hands still swell throughout the day and I didnt want to get them on one morning and then not be able to get them off at night.  I aske DH for a fake one for xmas - but he obviously didnt hear me - so sometimes I wear a simple band that my mom lent me but most of the time I go without.  I miss my wedding rings though.
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  • I took off my Ering and wore my wedding band, it still fit alone. Try that?
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  • I think mine is tight early because I have three soldered together - engagement, wedding and 1st yr. anniversary (not part of a set).  Either that or I'm just huge LOL
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  • Mine still come on and off right now, but if I have to remove them, I'll get cheapy fake one. Like pp, it's more for me though. I'm so used to the feel of them that I freak out when I'm not wearing them.

    My e-ring was at the store last month to fix the loose stone and I had a panic moment at least once a day thinking I had lost it!

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  • Mine came off at 21 weeks  :(  I've gone without but I do wonder if people think I'm having this child out of wedlock.  A fake is a great idea, but I don't feel like spending money on it.
  • Fortunately at least at the moment I can still wear my rings.  If I get to the point where they won't fit.....I'll just go without.
  • I plan on just getting a band.  My rings are just now starting to get a little tight in the afternoon, so I think I'm not far off.  :(  I love my wedding ring. I hate the thought of not being able to wear it. 
  • I don't wear my ring if I think it's going to be warm out - because it is so much tighter on warm days.  No biggie - I'll wear it again after the babies are born.  It doesn't make me feel less married.
  • In the last few weeks, my rings have gotten too puffy to wear more than my e-ring (the weddings bands cannot be worn alone - not built for that).  But, I went and bought a bigger fake ring (and it is OBNOXIOUS!) and I love it.  It's fun to have something so gaudy that is very comfy to wear.  FYI, I got the new ring at Nordstrom Rack for $13 - and as obnoxious as it is, it doesn't really look fake (mostly).
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