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DH thinks I'm being irrational

ashleigh1984ashleigh1984
in Babies: 9 - 12 Months

 because im afraid to leave ds with his parents. They have told me flat out that the dropped Dh at least five times when he was a baby.

Do you think I am?

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  • MI-brideMI-bride
    I can't really help, I think that DH's mom is insane, I won't leave DS with her...
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  • amajaneamajane member

    Yes, you're being irrational. Get a grip.

    :::shakes head:::?

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  • Mrs.McLovinMrs.McLovin member
    I would not feel great about leaving a baby with them.
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  • Soter1Soter1
    imageamajane:

    Yes, you're being irrational. Get a grip.

    :::shakes head::: 

    This, if this is the only sign they have given you.

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  • violetvirgovioletvirgo
    if dh's parents were serious about dropping him, i would not leave him.  of course i don't really like to leave dd anywhere...i guess my mom is ok, but honestly it makes me nervous even though she follows my instructions to the t.
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  • earthboundmisfitearthboundmisfit member

    Babies are wiggly, and your DH obviously turned out fine. I think you are being irrational..people drop babies! Probably more people than would ever admit. It'd be wrong to keep DS away from your IL's because of a reason like that.

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  • KateysomethingKateysomething member

    Do you believe your DH has been changed mentally or physically due to these dropsies? Seriously?

     

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  • ABC-123ABC-123
    Do you believe they might actually drop DS?  How do they seem when you are all together?  If so, I would not leave him with the ILs.  I would not leave DS with anyone that I was concerned with.  Of course, it is a million times more complex because it is family and I am sure you don't want to hurt them...
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  • krissy2323krissy2323
    Oh no! I totally understand your concerns but if you know and feel like in your heart they try their best and are not doing anything to harm your DC I would think you should feel more comfortable leaving him.
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