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Here comes two under two...

CyrbiaCyrbia
in Toddlers: 12 - 24 Months

...and this was NOT a plan.

It's been a few days since I was at the doctor's office with funny ovary pain and she told me I was pregnant. About 5 or 6 weeks now. No one knows other than a close friend at work (just in case) and my Husband.

I'm finally feeling a bit more excited, but really we were thinking of sticking with one child. We are so worried about day care costs over the next few years. I really don't think we'll be able to afford the extra $600 or $700 a month. Neither of us have good paying jobs.

Someone tell me they're jealous or something? LOL

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  • Tess12Tess12 member

    Okay, yeah, I'm a little jealous.  We're not quite ready for another one, but I fear if we wait too long it will be too late. 

    Congratulations!  That is truly wonderful news.  I'm sure it is scary right now but things have a way of working themselves out.  Hopefully the financial piece will not cause so much worry in the future.

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  • aimeelvaimeelv

    I'm so jealous! 

    Even though it's not what you had planned, these things always have a way of working out just fine!  Congratulations and enjoy your pregnancy.  Having two will be so much fun!  =)

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  • citygirl_citygirl_
    Congratulations!  I AM jealous!  It's a blessing.  Don't fret too much about money and stuff - things truly always have a way or working themselves out.  Maybe you'll have to cut certain things out or scale back - you'll make it work.  All the best to you!
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  • Alexandra*sMomAlexandra*sMom member
    Congrats!  I really hope to get pregnant this month, so yeah, I'm am a little jealous!
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  • Zoe0520Zoe0520
    Congrats! We were not prepared for #2 either. Everything DOES work out! We are so glad that accidents happen. Enjoy your pregnancy and just be confident that everything else will be OK...because it will.
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  • cherylkcherylk

    I'm very jealous:)  My son is 14 months and I've been trying for 9 months for another because of my age, 37.

    Good luck!

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  • Erin&RodErin&Rod
    Congratualtions!  I'm so jealous of all the recent BFPs.  We're not ready financially for another one either, but if it happened I would be happy, scared to death, but happy.  It is a blessing.  You'll get used to the idea of another baby, that's why you have 9 months to prepare.
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  • ylimebrideylimebride
    I'm not jealous, because I'm also in your boat. :)
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  • maddynkennymaddynkenny

    Congrats! 

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  • zoe_catzoe_cat
    Congratulations!  I imagine you're pretty freaked out since that wasn't the plan, but you'll make it work and it'll be great!
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  • CyrbiaCyrbia
    Just wanted to say THANK YOU! You are all SO great!
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  • Descanso*BrideDescanso*Bride
    Congrats!
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  • franciscazfranciscaz member
    I really believe things happen for a reason!!!!  Hang in there Smile  It is gonna be wonderful!  CONGRATS!
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  • MrsKellyOrBustMrsKellyOrBust
    Congratulations!!! We are in the same boat (wasn't planned) and now we are so excited. It took a couple of weeks for the shock to wear off though!
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  • RustyGirl3RustyGirl3 member

    oh...totally jealous!!  We would love #2 right now...but there a lot of reasons why we need to wait.  If we were to get pregnant we would be ecstatic and scared and know that everything would be wonderful...maybe a struggle...but you make it work because its important.

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  • jillybean222jillybean222 member
    We always planned on more than one child but I was terrified when I found out I was PG the second time.  I wondered how we would do make it all work and wondered what I had done to my first child. DD #2 is 3 months now and I couldn't be happier.  We are making it all work and we have a new normal...a new, very hectic, normal!!!  It is fun and your kids will thank you some day!!! 
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