Why do People say stupid things!!

Re: Why do People say stupid things!!

• krissyh21 member

  February 2009

  I am sorry. I think people say stupid things when they do not know what to say and are *trying* to say something to make you feel better. Of course, trying doesn't work most the time and they end up sticking their foot in their mouth.

  (((hugs)))
  

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• mybobble

  February 2009

  I am so sorry for your loss.

  I too hate these comments. I know they're trying to say something they "think" will help but it actually hurts more. I've learned to ignore the comments now.

  (((hugs)))

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• 6ft2bride

  February 2009

  UGH!!! That is all I can say! UGH!!!  I too am sorry for your loss, I think that there really arent any words that somone that has NOT gone through it can say to you, ya know.

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• so1966

  February 2009

  I'm so sorry for your losses. People always want to make things "positive," when all we want is just some sympathy.

  After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
  

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