some women are RETARDED!

Chikarebelde · February 2009

So I walk into a friend's office yesterday and run into the secretary who has always been cheering for my pregnancy and telling me that she's been trying for a while now.

After I tell her how happy I am blah blah, she says that she is miserable because she's pregnant and her boyfriend (mind you this woman is in her late 30's NOT a kid!) is making her get an abortion. But, she's not sure what to do..because reality is...she feels that she cannot afford a fourth child (her kids are 10-15 yrs old).And the WHOLE time she's telling me this, she's CHAIN smoking!??? wtf? You're still not 100% that you're having an abortion, but you're chain smoking?! Stupid people piss me off!! She should've just kept it all to herfself! It made me SOOO uncomfortable!

mavilabride · February 2009

Bernadette5 · February 2009

WOW! Unbelievable!

kmdixon · February 2009

sterilization. i support it.

ExpatFamily06 · February 2009

While I agree that she is being stupid and I am not one to get bothered by the word 'retarded' used in this sense, you're going to get totally flamed for using that word. Fyi!

nanantato · February 2009

""RETARDED""

Is not an accepted word on the Bump.

buckswife08 · February 2009

::waits for it...::

Roosky · February 2009

ummmm......."retarded?" You might want to try another word.

Lopo · February 2009

nanantato:

""RETARDED""

Is not an accepted word on the Bump.

I agree.

SouthernBellelovesaYankee · February 2009

You DO NOT want to use that word around here.

You have been warned....

freeburger16 · February 2009

Wow - you both are super Klassy.

Please try to expand your vocabulary a little

MrsPreK · February 2009

nanantato:
""RETARDED""

Is not an accepted word on the Bump.

Yeah, I didn't even read the post. Retarded really is unacceptable.

Leenie_89 · February 2009

Maybe she just doesn't like you because you speak like an ignorant teenager.

Or perhaps she's spotted your ginormous siggy and gathered the same impression.

HDxNxJ · February 2009

WOW!!!

I am all pro-choice but she really should make the decision now.

How awful!

Brittany Goodwin · February 2009

You're a douche. And fyi, 2nd tri lasts until 34 weeks. Don't come over before then.

heidismith · February 2009

kmdixon:
sterilization. i support it.

Ditto

JasonsLyric · February 2009

Apparently it's okay to flame people on here but it's not okay to use the r word for some reason. I'm sure you'll get flamed. I agree that the lady should not be smoking.

kmdixon · February 2009

SC Native:
You're a douche. And fyi, 2nd tri lasts until 34 weeks. Don't come over before then.

Hey! Don't leave us with her...or do. I'll be gone in a week.

alli&pat · February 2009

i figured enough women flamed you...i wasn't going to say anything as well. but i've changed my mind. that word is incredibly offensive and i highly suggest you edit the title to your post. you sould like an immature child...calling someone else out with that word.

nbkb4life · February 2009

Your vocabulary is impressive did you complete all 5 years of elementary school?

::head hits desk::

freeburger16 · February 2009

SC Native:
You're a douche. And fyi, 2nd tri lasts until 34 weeks. Don't come over before then.

So much THIS.

LOL.

toospooky · February 2009

You do realize that the word "retarded" does not mean "stupid"?

Try broadening your vocabulary horizons. Everyone in your life will thank you for it.

And your friend is a moron for smoking while pregnant. Her BF is a moron for not wanting to support his unborn child. Nobody can "afford" children, but somehow people make it work.

Mandy Ellsworth · February 2009

SC Native:
You're a douche. And fyi, 2nd tri lasts until 34 weeks. Don't come over before then.

Hahaha! Agreed, 34 weeks, and we strictly enforce it.

Hopefully any children you have won't have any learning disabilities and you will never know why that word is so offensive to some. But if you do, I'm sure you will feel differently about throwing that word around.

cminNJ · February 2009

nanantato:
""RETARDED""

Is not an accepted word on the Bump.

AGREED....

Mrs.Carlybella · February 2009

Klassy with a capital K. both you, and your friend

Marie Tourville · February 2009

MUD

lvisser · February 2009

freeburger16:

Wow - you both are super Klassy.

Please try to expand your vocabulary a little

Yes. This.

CubsGirlNYC · February 2009

Hippy:
MUD

Agree - is there even an office you can still smoke in left in America?

jtimestwo · February 2009

Chikarebelde:
So I walk into a friend's office yesterday and run into the secretary who has always been cheering for my pregnancy

So I totally agree with everyone that your choice of words is pretty horrible. But I also have to question a part of this story. You had walked into your friend's office and this woman was smoking? What office lets a person chain smoke indoors? And what the hell were you doing hanging out with a person chain smoking indoors? Just sayin'

mooninlv · February 2009

Leenie_89:
Maybe she just doesn't like you because you speak like an ignorant teenager.
Or perhaps she's spotted your ginormous siggy and gathered the same impression.

mooninlv · February 2009

Leenie_89:
Maybe she just doesn't like you because you speak like an ignorant teenager.
Or perhaps she's spotted your ginormous siggy and gathered the same impression.

thenewmrsrussell · February 2009

Chikarebelde · February 2009

Whoa! Way to be 'expansive' on your vocabulary by quoting reply after reply and repeating the same thing OVER AND OVER! I get it okay! I was not aware that everyone would take that word to heart at the moment I wrote my post....I just wrote quick and posted. I agree it's a word that is widely misused and I messed up! My apologies for the 'word' but you can all go to hell for your attitude. I'm sure you can 'flame' all you want there! Devil

Chikarebelde · February 2009

SC Native:
You're a douche. And fyi, 2nd tri lasts until 34 weeks. Don't come over before then.

Douche? That's the best you could do? And who designated you as the gatekeeper over at 3rd tri? As far as I'm concerned, I started my third trimester YESTERDAY and I will go to THIRD whenever I feel like it. Although if YOU are an accurate representation of what the ladies are like there, maybe I don't want to share anything with you.

shannynhall · February 2009

Chikarebelde:
Although if YOU are an accurate representation of what the ladies are like there, maybe I don't want to share anything with you.

Promise?

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