Pregnant after a Loss

Update on me: Dr wants the baby out. :(

We have scheduled the c section for Tuesday.

Ultrasound went fine but the BP is still high etc etc. In the meantime, more bedrest (bedrest till the end). He wants to try to squeeze out that this last week but closely monitored (taking BP at home and going in and bedrest). She measured about 6 lbs 10 oz which I thought was pretty good and in the 55th percentile which they said was good but to be honest I have no clue what that means. She has a head full of hair and still has big feet Embarassed Oh well, models have big feet right? AND she is still a girl LOL. There is NO DOUBT this child is a girl.

We told him we wanted whatever is best for Abby, but we were both glad we get another week to get over this bug we have. The Dr. said bc of my BP there is really nothing I can take for it so just lots of liquids for me!.

The silver lining in all of this was DH was only going to be able to take a week off, now he will be able to take almost two full weeks off. So that is really awesome, I thought. I started shaking while we were working out the details bc it seemed so scary to me but the Dr said the magic words to dh "If this was my wife, I would get the baby out." So at that point it was a done deal. He said there is an 8/9 out of 10 chance that she will go home with me without having to stay any longer. I know that isnt the greatest news but we all know that preclampsia can be a life and death thing for me and abby so if she has to stay an extra day or two to make sure she is ok, I can live with that.
Anyways, that's the latest. Sorry it took so long, we were at the drs forever yesterday!

Thanks MrsCrowell (great running into you!) and Casebride for updating!

Re: Update on me: Dr wants the baby out. :(

  • Thanks for the update, Jessica - rest and get better, and I'll be thinking about you and Abby!
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  • Good luck!  We'll be sending lots of good thoughts your way!  Get some rest mama!  :)
  • Well Keep your feet up, and take a deep breath!! Your doc has delivered many babies and I have have faith that he/she wouldn't do something that wasn't neccessary....Just think soon you will see abby.
  • GL!  You are full term so I'm sure it will be fine :)  You doctor is just trying to do what is best for you and baby and just think you get to meet your baby sooner.
  • Sounds like they are doing what's best for you & baby.  In the meantime, rest up and feel better!!
  • Sounds like you are doing what's best for you and Abby - I'll be sending good thoughts your way!
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  • It sounds like you are in very good hands with your dr and he is doing what is best.  Take care of yourself.  I'll keep you and Abby in my thoughts and prayers.

  • You guys are in my thoughts!!  You just get to see Abby a little sooner :)
  • GL!  I hope baby gets to come home with  you.  Sending you good c-section vibes.
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  • Get lots of rest and I really hope you and DH start feeling better soon!
  • Hang in there! I hope you feel better so you can enjoy her when she arrives. I am praying for you girl :)
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  • Thanks for the update! Take it easy and I'll be sending lots of good vibes your way.
  • keeping you in my thoughts & prayers Jess!  6lb 10oz is a good size baby I think.  hope you feel better soon!  Yea for meeting Abby soon! ; )
  • Try to get lots of rest and fluids - I hope you get over that yucky bug soon.  And it sounds like your doctor is doing a great job monitoring you and abby, I am sure everything will go well.
  • Oh Jessica...I just want to give you really big hugs.  Everything you're feeling makes perfect sense, and I'm nervous/excited for you!  But it sounds like they've got a great plan, and you're so close to the end now anyway, she should be just fine.  You will be very much in my thoughts, hang in there for your last week of bedrest, and I hope your cold feels better soon (this week should help a lot). 
  • Thanks for letting us know! Hope you get over the bug you've got soon!
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  • I think 6 pounds sounds like a nice weight for a girl.  I'm sure everything will be fine.  I'll be thinking of you!!!
  • I was only 6 lbs 13 oz at birth and was fine.  You will be full term when that little one comes out and they also say that girls have better lung development. I know it sounds super scarey but this is best and focus on the good. You are going to be a mommy next week.
  • Wishing your baby all the best before the big day.  Rest up and recover from that darned cold!
  • Wow, can't believe you will be meeting your LO so soon!  I'll be thinking about you, I hope this last week goes by smoothly. :)
  • I am glad to hear that Abby is doing well, and you just need to keep resting for another week so that she's really ready to come out.  I hope that you're feeling better soon!
  • Sending you lots of good thoughts.
  • Wow, she's almost here!  Good luck... 8 or 9 out of 10 odds are pretty good.  I hope it all goes smoothly!
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  • You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I hope everything goes well and you feel better before Tuesday.
  • Sending lots of get better vibes to you and your DH, and strong baby growing vibes to little Abby! Take care of yourself and rest up - next week this time, you'll be a mommy to an outside baby!
  • better safe than sorry... you're gonna do great! ?
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  • Definitely seems better to err on the side of caution.  Hope you are feeling better soon - just think how soon you'll be meeting Abby!
  • I'm sorry you have to go through this but it won't be too much longer.

    WHat time are you scheduled for on Tuesday?

  • Yes 55th percentile is good, right smack in the middle.  I hope you are able to get some rest this weekend before you meet your girl!

  • Lots of good thoughts for you and your little Abby!  I can't believe you are going to be a mommy next week!
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